im a 22yr old female in love with a 17yr old male what do i do?

Question

he is my older brothers friend and we love each other so much he is about to turn 18 and we have sort of been seeing each other but we are both worried about telling my brother incase he turns against us the 3 of us are so close and we dont want that, should we tell him? and has anyone got any ideas on the best way to tell him?

Answer 1

As long as you care for someone and they are of legal age, don't let it get to you. Just sit down and explain to your brother your feelings. Don't rush into anything. Both of you are still young and have plenty of time to make sure that this is THE ONE. Just listen to your heart.

Answer 2

i think theres a lot you need to take in to consideration..i understand what love is..would the guys parents be okay with it....is going to college soon...? but as far as your brother goes...i think maybe inside you know how hes going to react...and if ur really really serious about the relationship..then you should tell him..theres nothing worse than keeping a secret inside.....hes your brother he will love you anyways..he just might need some time to vent...

I hope everything works out for the best... :o)

Answer 3

Either wait until he's 18 or put a lawyer on retainer

Answer 4

Wait until he is 18.

Answer 5

HAVEN'T YOU EVER HEARD OF THE RULE THAT YOU DON'T GO OUT WITH YOUR BROTHERS FRIENDS..WHAT ON EARTH WERE YOU THINKING HE IS A KID...YOU NEED TO GET OVER HIM BECAUSE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BROTHERS IS WAYYYYYY MORE IMPORTANT

Answer 6

why not find someone your own age why screw with this poor guy. he is still a kid why not ask your mother what she thinks about it. i bet she will think you are very immature.