Okay, so my dream is that I was going to my school's theater for some reason and at the back of the theater I hear my mom telling me to hurry up and put on my dress. I was getting married! Somehow in the dream I knew I was getting married ,but I didn't know who I was getting married to. And I woke up right before I walked into the theater. Does anyone know what this means?!?
2007-02-07 14:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by twinkles_starlight 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Theatres usually represent performance in front of an audience, perhaps representing people who surround you. While you are on stage you are not the one in control, someone else is (parents sometimes represent authority). Could it be that you feel pressured by others how to live your life, like parents, teachers, friends, or anyone who thinks they have your best interests in mind. Weddings represent committment - but in your dream you have no idea about what you are committing to utnil it shows up and presents itself in front of you; even under this situation you still have no real control. Are you at a point in your life where you are being pressured by others to make an important decision in your life but you feel somewhat reluctant to make that decision because if you make the wrong one the world around you (the audience) will perceive you negatively. The fact that you woke up before the big picture revealed itself is interesting. Maybe you are afraid to suffer the consequences of any major decisions you make, and thus, you let other people make them for you.
2007-02-07 15:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had dreams like that before. You're still hesitant thinking about marriage since you're so young, and hearing your mother telling you to hurry up symbolizes that. For some reason your school's theater has a special meaning to you, maybe some childhood related love? And you have pretemptious thoughts about going in the theater, a sign of some sort of security.
Anyways, I've read a really good mind book http://www.mindisamyth.com/read.php
It's really interested since it's concerning an image of yourself.
2007-02-07 22:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no scientific evidence that supports dream interpretation. It's a pseudo-science. I'm afraid the dream only means as much as what you want it to mean. If you decide to just forget all about it, it will have absolutely no bearing on your life. Also, the unconscious is another pop-psychology term. It's unobservable and therefore does no exist in the realm of science.
It is, however a convenient device when the real answer is elusive:
"Why did he exhibit that behavior? It must have been because he was *unconsciously" thinking about etc etc...."
2007-02-08 01:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by double_dip_34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess: School theatre is a place where you would be seen. Full adulthood has not yet come, so your mother is representation for that. Adulthood, or emerging adult, feelings within you are somewhat tied to being married in the future, as something you desire. "In the future" is represented by the fact that there was no identity known of the other person. You woke up before you walked in because you are not ready to - why walk in if you're not ready?
2007-02-07 22:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by dejrevilo@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mother is pressuring you in some way to get married. Is that so? I think you want to get married sometime in the future but are in no hurry. Please don't just marry someone to please your mother. Don't just act like it is the biggest thing in your life or you life's mission. Work on cutting the apron strings. You are your own person and have your own life to live. By cutting the apron strings, I don't mean cutting off your mother. I just mean accepting your mother's views as hers, respecting her , but being true to your own dreams. Getting married used to be the ultimate achievement of a woman, but is just icing on the cake now, lol.
2007-02-07 22:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jean M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre basicly going to meet the person you have been waiting for all your life. Id say its going to be a soul-mate possibly a loved one. But your mom hurrying you up also means she is over protective of you and that she cares about you and that she only wants the best from you! ( by the way this is only my opinion and intrepertation)
2007-02-07 22:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sgt. Pepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are interpreted by how you feel about a situation. If you feel helpless in your love life, perhaps this could explain it. You were making a huge commitment but didn't know to who or why. This seems like you feel helpless. But you are the only one who can say for sure.
2007-02-07 22:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mokimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the theater represents the kind of marriage-like a phony stage act or a sham- or a marriage out of desperation to get away from family
2007-02-07 22:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by michael m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll just say your avatar looks pretty and i think your dream is from romeo and juliet, becaus its a play and they get married and soon after that they die! : ) oh and your mom is your consience telling you to hurry and marry the man of your dream b4 its too late.
2007-02-07 22:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Zack C* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you really want to get married someday. But you will not have a good one you will marry an abusive man who is never around
2007-02-07 22:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋