Ideas to unawkward things?

Question

I like this one girl and we;ve been friends for a while. Lately we havent talked much, only online, and rarely awknowledge eachother in the school halls. I was thinking of going to the movies or to dinner with her or something to reignite the friendship and later to expand it. Im just afraid that it will be very awkward and that ill turn her off since im not very outgoing and a little geeky and she doesnt usually lead conversations. Even the idea of her getting into my car seems awkward, not cuz of the car cuz its nice, but cuz i dont know how to communicate with her especially if its one-on-one. Any ideas? i dont know where to start. I dont talk to girls often. Regular conversation starters wont work cuz we know basic things bout each other already. Maybe we need an activity or something to do together. IDK

Answer 1

Talk to her and tell her

Answer 2

your just a little shy thats all. geeky? if you say so.but chics are ok with that too.its 2007 u no.unless she is way out of your league? Only u no.then your fantaciszing.but if she talks 2 u online? you still have half a chance. dude you got to relax.if you cant ask her face to face .ask online.the worst thing that could happen is? she might say no.
by reading your question your not an idiot. however cuz is really spelled "because"
If you know her a little already? what does she like to do?dont ask her friends or yours if you dont know? ask her.
next time online after the hi how r yas type this to her.

I was wondering if by chance you might like to go do something with me sometime? then type .I dont want a commitment for marraige or anything like that,but i would like to spend some time with you and get to know you a little better.then be ready with some possible activities.amusement parks are expensive first dates .avoid the hi end wine and dine.try pizza and minature golf.I live in so.cal. so outdoor day or night activities are availble year round.movies are no good for communacation.just be yourself.be courteous,but dont over do it.never run to open a door.do it with style .learn to get there just in time to open it.timing can take away geekyness lol.never be afraid to look her in the eyes and say what you really feel.pay close attention to her facial expressions.they will tell you more about what she is really thinking,than her words usally will.
never allow a woman to make you look bad..never
allways tell the truth lol besides that...IT WILL SET U FREE...its.. easier to remember
a little geeky lol so u dont play football...lmao
ever hear of bill gates ?? .......E

Answer 3

It is hard sometimes to communicate with people of the opposite sex. Particularly when you are in High School. It can be really really tough! Instead talking online, perhaps you should begin talking to her personally, before you ask her out. And this can just be on the phone. Build up a rapport which you can work upon when you are alone with her, be it at School, in the car or in the movies. You don't want to rush things, but you need to strengthen that relationship. You don't want to freak her out by asking her out, if she isn't ready. Get to know her. Ask her what she likes to do, etc. And just talk about common interests. If you do have trouble getting a conversation started, just talk about random things like, events in the news, sport, crazy local gossip, the weather, anything. Just gotta keep the conversation going and force yourself to speak.

Good luck!

Answer 4

The best way to "unawkward" things is to just focus on an activity. That way if you don't talk alot it's ok, because you are doing something. Go to a show (not a movie), go to a game or bikriding together. When you are doing something, akward silence is ok. Here are a few activities that might work
bike riding
go to a game
arcade
miniature golf
museum
a fair / festival / craft shows are awesome
charity event.

Answer 5

Dinner and a movie are great if you are already comfortable with eachother. Since you are not, I would suggest something that will get you both outside of your bubble like a paintball fight, lazer tag, bumper boats, just something unique. That way both of you will be smiling and talking about how much fun you are having and then naturally a conversation should come.

Answer 6

If shes your friend you obviously know what she likes .... why not talk about something that you will slowly and eventually develop into a more person conversation dont talk too much if isnt intrested ....talking too much sometimes isnt the best answer.

Answer 7

Hey, you are worried about nothing that time won't fix. You are aimed at one young lady---it doesn't appear to be a good fit at this time---you admit that---so try some others--slowly get your self confidence----lots of kids describe themselves as you do---so if they can get past it--so can you---just give it time and let nature take its course. You are right--find a club and meet new people---that will help.Have fun, stand tall, be nice and smile. good luck

Answer 8

Just talk about normal stuff. Are you doing anything special this weekend? Do you like pizza? What kind of music do you like? What's the last movie you saw? Tell her about your family. Ask her about hers. Does she have any pets? Does she like to play games? What kind of sports does she like?

Answer 9

First of all if you only talk online, then ask her online. If your coversations start with just basic things ask her for help with homework at school. Just be nice!!! Girls like nice guys!

Answer 10

u 2 need time 2gether.

Answer 11

don't do nothing by yurselfs....invite friends along until u get more comfortable then go from there....even tell her y u invited them along...i bet she feels the same way....give it a whirl...nothing to lose but that idea