there are so many things happening in my life and i cant handle all of them. like, school, drama between friends, my family, sports, me, and then this boy i like. he is 3 years older then me and lives down the street from me. but today when i got home he was talkin 2 me and when i replyed it sounded like i had a mean tone 2 my voice. now i feel really bad and want 2 say sry, but i dont no how and im really scared cuz i really like him. even though he will problebly never like me like the way i like him, i still feel really bad. what should i do? i quess this wasnt really a question, i just need someone 2 talk 2, and i dont really want to tell my parents. so if u have any sugestions or comments plz ltell me. thx.
2007-02-07 14:10:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well the best way to apologize is just do it, sometimes it can be hard but its just something needed to be done. Take a day to yourself, just treat yourself like a queen for a day when you dont have anything to do. itll help you relax and calmyourmind orif youhave only 10 mins in a day free use those 10 mins to meditate or something...so long as you can clear your mind or at least ease your mind. Hope my advice helps you...<3
2007-02-07 14:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by His_Fallen_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, sounds like you are one busy young lady! Drama with friends and communicating with family are high on my list of stresses. With friends, I would just kinda try not to get involved in the drama, be neutral. Try and be a good listener to them to maintain the friendship but try not to disc on the other people they are complaining about. Usually they just need an ear to vent. Same way with family they just may need someone to listen too. There is also that sibling rivelry thing. I try to listen to what the other person in my family is saying, it may not be that they are upset with me, just something that happened to them during the day. The guy thing, I am sure he did not think you had a mean tone. He may thought you were reserved and a little shy, which is quite normal when you first meet or talk to someone. But since he has approched you first, you can say a happy hi to him whenever you see him, since he opened the door for communication. But remember he is three years older then you and that is a big age gap when you are young, but it does not mean you can't become good friends and when you get older, well heh who knows. . . . . .
2007-02-07 14:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Shamrock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dint think you really need to apologizes to him. First of all he might not even know what you havet to apologizes for. As for him liking you how you like him you will never know unless you ask him or start hanging out with him a lot. If you really feel that you need to apologize then the next time you talk to him in a nonchalant way just say "oh and I'm sorry if i sounded pissy (for lack of a better work) last time we were talking" Hell just say oh naw it was cool or something like that and things will be all better. Good luck
2007-02-07 14:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow girl you have alot going on. Do you ever stop and take time out for yourself? Relfect on the day or the like?
I have a litmus test for things like this...if you can't tell your parents about this then is it good for you? Your parents are your biggest supporters, if you can't trust them, then who can you trust? I think you should reconnect with your mom. You both may walk away surpprised!
There is one out there who you never ever have to question His love for you. God! He loves you, seriously. He does not want you to be an old prude either. He loves you the way you are. Don't believe me ask Him yourself! He is a prayer away. You don't need some preacher with a prepackaged sermon to tell you how to do that, you are already equiped with everything you need to talk to God. You! God is already standing by! You are so important to Him and He loves you just the way you are!
I hope all turns out for you!
You are special and if that boy doesn't like you, he doesn't know what he is missing!!
2007-02-07 14:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by whatever_2_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One conversation is not going to make him run away if he is interested in you. Did he look at all upset when you talked to him? I bet he didn't even notice. Don't worry! Just be nice when he talks to you again. Be you, if he doesn't like you as you are then you have to find someone who does. Don't try to be something you aren't, it's so hard to keep up an act forever.
2007-02-07 14:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! if u feel like you can't talk to your parents, write a note to them! That's what i did yesterday and now i'm allowed to do more than i thought i would be able to. tell the boy that your sorry, that's all it would take to let him know that you ARE sorry. GOOD LUCK! FOLLOW YOUR HEART!
2007-02-07 14:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by lightkitty14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nothing but creation of love in your mind for him. So if you think he is good enough to be loved & can proved to be a sincere person for you in your life only then put a forward step. Otherwise forget it as relations means much in life & there shouyld be a purity & sincerety in relationship.
2007-02-07 14:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. Next time you talk to him casually say you are sorry about the tone of your voice and it wasnt intentional. Good luck =]
2007-02-07 14:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by smarty6299 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry u had such a bad day. but thats life, theres a lot of ups and downs. you'll get through it. and if you really feel that bad about the boy thing just go tell him you're sorry. im sure he'll understand.
2007-02-07 14:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Fabregas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you talk to him just be cool, and if he asks what was wrong just say something like "oh, I was just stressed, sorry." I know how you feel, I have done this a bagillion times, he probably did not notice...that is how guys are.
2007-02-07 14:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Davis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋