Friend Trouble?? Help?

Question

I lost 4 of my friends,but all of them are just not fair.They just stop being my friend because I ditched them at P.E when we were running.The reason I ditched them because one of my other friends was sick and running a mile and she was really lonely.I didn't mean to ditch them,but they always ditch me and I never said anything.I don't think I should make up because they are all really shallow,but if I lose them then I become a loner.What do I do? Help!!

I lost 4 of my friends,but all of them are just not fair.They just stop being my friend because I ditched them at P.E when we were running.The reason I ditched them because one of my other friends was sick and running a mile and she was really lonely.I didn't mean to ditch them,but they always ditch me and I never said anything.I don't think I should make up because they are all really shallow,but if I lose them then I become a loner.One of them is nice and is my best friend for 6 years.I don't want to lose her.What do I do? Help!!

Answer 1

Well, I know just how you feel. I have lost soo many friends for absolutely no REAL reason at all. If they are that mean to you, then I would tell you that they are not your true friends. I know it is hard to not be friends with people who you were really close to. Over a 2 year time, I have lost many friends. Don't ask me why, because I know I didn't do anything. I finally found an AWESOME friend last year, however, she isn't going to my school this year. When I found out I was so mad, because I didn't have anyone else. I finally got over it because I knew I couldn't change anything, so I had to let her go. Now I am a loner at school too. It really sucks, but we have to live on. Even thought my BFF isn't going to school with me anymore, we still call each other, e-mail each other, and hang out whenever we can. I know being a loner is hard, but just hang on, and be yourself. Don't ever try to be someone else to fit in. It will all turn out OK! :)

Answer 2

If you're only friends with them because you don't want to be lonely, then forget them.
And if you want to make some new friends, get involved. Join a club for something you like to do, and there you'll meet people who like the same things. You'll be able to talk to them more easily too, so there goes the whole awkward conversation problem.
Trust me, having no friends is better than having fake friends.

Answer 3

hey girl,
I always tell people that you can't make everyone happy and if those people were your REAL friends they would not be treating you this way. And dont say that you'll be a loner cause you can find other friends that really care bout u.