My name is anna and i wanna know why people so mean to each other even when you are nice to them what should i do about bullies please help
2007-02-07 14:01:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anna R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is the nature of some.
Just blow off the bullies
2007-02-07 14:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill them with kindness, the bullying will eventually get tiresome for them. They bully, only because they have things going on in their personal life. They are trying to express that through the bullying. Best thing you can do? Don't take it to heart. Bullies are bullies because they are having a bad time in another part of thier life and take it out on classmates, strangers, friends. If you are getting bullied and find no way out. REPORT IT TO ANYONE WHO WILL LISTEN. Find anyone who will listen to you that you are getting bullied. Talk and talk. Make it known to everyone around you. That way, you can have some eyes watching if it happens. Meet with school officials, teachers, principle. Chances are the ones who may be bullying you are bullying others as well. Find a voice, and talk. Don't meet with the bully, meet with those who can find a solution. Someone will listen, just keep telling anyone, to make them aware this is happening.
2007-02-07 22:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullies are small-minded, scared little people who spend their days trying to prove otherwise. In other words, not worth your time or trouble. I don't know where this is happening, I would assume in school. I know reporting this sort of thing kind of tends to make it worse but if things are actually physical, you really have little choice. Ignoring them does work, but not today, and things may get worse before they get better, but eventually they'll get bored and find a new victim. Unless you have a good freind with a big brother.
2007-02-07 22:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by yeraluzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. ALL bullies are scared little creatures who act bigger than themselves to make themselves feel better about the scum they know they are.
Just live your life and ignore the idiots and most will go away. If one or two are stubborn, then ask a school counselor what you should do, b/c they deal with these types of issues everyday and are great sources of info.
Just remember not to take it personally, b/c the problem is never about you, it's about them.
2007-02-07 22:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the world is full of mean an hateful people , all i can tell you is to pray for them and ask the lord to help you deal with those types of people . i have found that this is the best way to go about dealing with this type of problem
2007-02-07 22:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rise above it... most of the time its because they are jealous of you and try to make themselves feel better about it by trying to make you feel bad... so take it as a twisted compliment...
2007-02-07 22:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some ppl are mean cause there not happy w them selves... just dont talk to them
2007-02-07 22:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by staceydv4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋