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Theres this girl whos a year older than me and we've been friends for a while and chat often. Recently ive really become to like her, but at the same time, she has talked to me about some other guy that she likes so Ive never told her how i feel. How do I make myself more appealing than the other guy? Obviously i dont have a very high opinion of him and think of myself very highly (since I am the swim team captain and excell in academics, and etc). How do I make myslef more noticable. Lately ive noticed that our friendly relationship has been getting thinner and we only ocassionally talk online and rarely aknowledge eachother in the halls. Everytime we talk even online i dont know what to say anymore and all i think about is how to make us together. It has been a huge distraction recently. IDK, maybe she is intimidated and thinks that i wont accept her since Im pretty accomplished and shes not that accomplished but I really dont care. I like her for her personality anyway.

2007-02-07 13:52:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

Even though i have alot going for me, i dont like to talk bout my accomplishment unless specifically asked. I would rather listen to her talk about nothing than brag about myself. I am very selfless and like her for her personality.

2007-02-07 13:54:08 · update #1

7 answers

just be yourself .please do not try to make your self into someone that your not . and tell her how you feel as life is very short . tell the people you care about that you care as you might not get the chance again an be honest with them an be true to yourself

2007-02-07 14:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i really dont think taht girls care if you are acomplished or not.
if i were you i would just ask her out for some drinks or dinner
and then just let her know how u feel
if she rejects then oh well at least u can move on.

2007-02-07 14:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by adrian_1282 2 · 0 0

it doesn't look like this is going anywhere. you should talk to her and let her know you feel like you two are seperating and ask her why. what she replies will tell you a lot about what she thinks and what you can do to reverse what has happened.

2007-02-07 13:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by notanotherwarning40 1 · 0 0

best advice to you is tell her, because if you keep those feelings inside you then your going to be torching yourself. and from experience that's the worse pain you can feel

2007-02-07 13:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Party Girl 4 · 0 0

JUST BE CONFIDENT! :) Some girls are not into look of a certain guy. Goodluck! :)

2007-02-07 13:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by princess 1 · 0 0

Simple. By not caring if you are.

2007-02-07 13:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 1 0

there is an easy solution. just tell her how you feel.

2007-02-07 13:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by treehugger421 2 · 0 0

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