Have been happily married 16 yrs but when me and husband were newlyweds we didnt have sex everyday or a couple times a day.....is that rare/abnormal or are there other couples who were like this.
2007-02-07 13:49:47 · 6 answers · asked by sally d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is fine do not worry about it. It is fine and very normal. Dont beat yourselves up over it.
2007-02-07 13:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with that, after all you are happily married for 16 years. It's just showing that you did not have to have sex everyday, it is not how much time you have, it is the quality that counts, and that is probably you guys have. I'm happy for you being in the relationship that long and a happy one too, you must be doing something right.
2007-02-07 22:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by lyza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been happily married for 16 years, why in the world would you wonder about such a thing?
Normal. What is normal? Sounds like what you did was normal for you. Who cares about such intimate details in other peoples' lives?
2007-02-07 22:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this must bother you or you would not be asking.........there are several things that would play into if it mattered or not....how long were you together before you got married? you may have worn out the newlywed syndrome before you got married.....but if you have been married for that long then you have got to find away to get it out of your head.....he loves you and you love him and after 16 years together you have nothing to worry about
2007-02-07 22:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by kat20mill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on ones sexual appetites...If both parties are happy with minimal sex then it's cool. Some need lots and lots of sex, others don't . There is no magical number to achieve. I think if you both were satisfied then it is ok.
2007-02-07 21:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said this is in the past, do you really care?
You are a unique couple, one of a kind. What ever you did/do is between you's.
Why compare your selves to others?????????????????
2007-02-07 21:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by older mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋