now days have changed and more and more people are having sex..like all my friends have done it...I am on birth control(only cuz I have to take this mediction which u have to be on the pill to be on my medication) ...I am 16..is it safe for me to have sex? remember I am on birth control and we would use a condom too...
2007-02-07 13:47:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm glad that you're so concerned for your safety, but all the safety in the world doesn't make you emotionally ready for sex. There are many better reasons to have sex than because your friends are. Wait until you're found a guy that you can really trust and love.
If you think you're ready, obviously it's your own decision--a decision for which you would have to take any consequences.
2007-02-07 13:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by King Ebeneezer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If yoou are just going to do it bc everyone else is doing it then No...but if yoou feel like this might the right person and yoou are ready for M A Y B E having a baby...(condoms and the pill dont A L W A Y S work) then I say go ahead........but remember...the pill and a condom dont A L W A Y S work... =[[
2007-02-07 21:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by JeorjiaBoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can Have Sex with your husband , if you are not married so i recommend not to have sex till you get married .
A Woman Is Like an Unique Diamond . nobody can touch her except that person who Worked hard and payed a lot of money and effort to get this Diamond .. The Woman Is Much Much more precious than the Most expensive Diamond in the World ..
So , Dear Friend , don't offer yourself except to that only person who can Take care of you and love you " I Mean Your Husband "
not to that person who wants to just have fun with you and search for another Female to do the same with her .
I am A man and i am in my twenties , i am going to be married in the coming 2 monthes as i expect but never had sex before marriage ,, it's not hard to wait ,, try it & you won't regret it ..
Good Luck
2007-02-07 21:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by MAZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is safe for you to do this. but having sex is a big step. giving your virginity to someone can happen only once. make sure that this person is the one. the one that is worthy of receiving this gift from you. don't be something he can use. at your age thats what all boys want, they don't want a relationship. once they get it they all of a sudden are to bust to talk. i know. i was a 16 year old once. you will always remember this person as long as you live. so if he isn't all that he should be wait for another one to come along. don't rush having sex. you will see as you get older the girls that are virgins get more respect. so wait if you can. its not all its cracked up to be.
2007-02-07 21:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends. Are you emotionally ready for this? Are you with someone you trust and know well, and are prepared to have sex with? The first time is always tricky, so make sure you are ready. It sounds like you will be physically protected, but just make sure you are emotionally protected. At 16 you are old enough to make your own decisions concerning sex, but don't feel you have to rush into anyting just because your friends are. It is not something you would want to rush into....
2007-02-07 22:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Save yourself. Just because everyone is doing it doesn't mean that you have to also.
I would like to see some young people rise above the statistics and prove themselves better.
I hope you make the right decision, because your decision will have an effect on the rest of your life.
2007-02-07 21:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cause everyone is doing it you don't gotta go for it....
If everyone is jumping the bridge to end up in hell ....are you gonna do the same?.... (i don't think you would)
...Now get yourself together and ask yourself if you truly want to do it...?? Or wait,.. have you already done it??... cause if you're taking birth control pills...
Well either way,... i think you should wait till you're older...
Yes ,... times have changed and for the worse,.. so if you want to go ahead and mess it up more... it's up to you,...
Oh dear,... this world of ours is lossing it's senses....
but it's up to you...
luck.
2007-02-07 21:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear 16 year old. even if you take birth control . you should not have sex until you are married . if all your friends jumped off a bridge would you do it too?
2007-02-07 21:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never completely pills fail condoms pop & once you've done it you cant take it back it is gone cherries are like trophys to guys do want to be someones trophy WAIT !!!! beleave it or not you wont like doing it as much when you get older so if you start now you wont like it as much befor you get older WAIT!!! you have your whole life to have sex an hopefully that will be a loooong time make them love you for who and what you are not what you got....
2007-02-07 22:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by slapjack458 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very young... sex is about a close and intimate relationship -- most people your age can manage the mechanics, but are unprepared for the emotional part. And condoms are tricky, too, they slip off.
you have nothing to lose if you wait, and lots to lose if you don't.
2007-02-07 21:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋