Well this is what happened I told him i might be pregnant (I'm still waiting for the test results) and he flipped when he calmed down he told me he would stick by me if i am but if not he wanted a... and i said Break? he said yes (to sort of call him on his game)i said Oh thats good i was going to talk to you about taking a break and he seemed really shocked and we spoke about it and he said he wanted me to decide when we take it and for how long so i said now and we will talk face to face in two weeks (this converseation happened over the phone it's a long distance relationship) and he said what if you are pregnant and i said we have problems and if we are going to have a child we need to sort them out and was like thats true and he said don't worry this break will make us stronger and he told me he won't get with any girls while on this break he just wants some ME time should i worry about this or have we done the right thing?
2007-02-07 13:36:32 · 6 answers · asked by Missty Rain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to find out if you really are pregnant, an over the counter test should be sufficient to give you an immediate answer. A lot of guys think girls use pregnancy as a ploy and he might be scared you are trying to scare him into a bigger committment then he is ready for. He probably wants a break to sort all of this out. Find out if you are pregnant and go from there. If you are long distance I don't know how much more of a break from you he needs. From my experience, breaks usually are not a good thing. Good luck
2007-02-07 13:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing first, you need to get the results of your pregnancy test back or just get an over-the-counter test, ept will suffice, and find out if you are pregnant because this guy is already trying to ditch you. How much of a break do you need if you have a long distance relationship anyway, think about it? He's giving you signs now that he wants to run scared. It seems like he would want to support you emotionally during this time, because you got to be feeling a little anxious right about now, and not to say that he might not be a little nervous or confused too, but hey, if you are pregnant, you got to carry it unless you seek other alternatives, either way, the burden is on you! Good luck and be positive!
2007-02-08 05:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by la_la1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to break-up but doesn't have the balls to just say it. I don't know your age, but if a relationship is good and stable, people don't need "breaks" like this. He's not talking about taking some time to spend with his buddies bowling, he's talking about breaking up. Also, the timing is a good clue that he's a weenie!
2007-02-07 21:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Em 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thinks it's pitiful that in a time of crisis he wants a break. I hope your not pregnant and if you are...I'd be having serious second thoughts about being with someone who could act that lame. Gd luck!
2007-02-07 21:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm a guy and when i used that line i wanted it over , then the girl allways throws in the im pregnaunt card i think its a way to hold on if you dont find a new one
2007-02-07 21:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by augydoggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to break up but want's you to be avialable for the next time he wants to use you...just in case you're NOT pregnant.
2007-02-07 21:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋