I even got us porn to watch. He doesn't seem to care either way. When we do it, it's good. He doesn't have a problem getting hard. He says he doesn't masterbate (at least not often.) I'm good looking - not fat. I take care of our baby (9months old)- stay at home mom. I would do anything for him. We've been together for 3 years. He says he just doesn't need it that often. He doesn't want to talk about it. Or any of my feelings for that matter. He says he's not getting it somewhere else. But he and his friend hired a stripper one night while I was gone. He says he can't explain why - just that he made a mistake. WTF? Also, everytime we start discussing something he says we don't belong together anymore - but the next day he acts like "nothing." I've got one foot out the door. What the heck is going on?
2007-02-07 13:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by gail s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I so know how you feel,been there,for 10 years.it dont get any better,if he wont talk about.just tell him,you have needs to!an if he still dont care, run!! life is to short!
2007-02-07 19:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by sparkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man has an obligation to meet his wifes needs.
Take the problem to your doctor and get a script for viagra and go from there.
Just because hubby says things to try to explain his flagging sex drive, it doesnt mean he knows what the problem is.
There are many many reasons why a mans drive diminishes, and it is normally medical. Sometimes phsycological.
Trying to find the solution from within can be very counterproductive.
Outside help is the best option
2007-02-09 18:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really wierd. i have no idea. maybe he's not attracted to you and he's afraid to tell you. That would explain why he doesn't want to have much sex and also why he hired a stripper. However, its also a good possibility that he's under a lot of stress at work or something. That usually kills my mood. He probably just doesn't want to tell you about it - i'm not a very open person either. Maybe he's like me - i just always feel akward as hell talking about my feelings.
2007-02-11 19:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by milan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋