i am not married the only reason i would get married is for the sex . i love people and am very kind but i dont think the world is safe to have children and i am not all that well of .
i wonder how many people secretly think i am gay .
i am not gay nor do i look it as far as i know oh i am male and called sandy i dont think that helps.what do you think
2007-02-07 13:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sandy is a scottish and english and irish name that is used as the officail short form of alexander which is my second name . i stick with it because this is a name the men have had in my family going very far back . people from europe have asked me why we have girls here called sandy . so there you go thanks all .
2007-02-08 10:44:34 · update #1
maybe your smarter than us people who got married then divorced
2007-02-07 13:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got the right attitude buddy. These wemen these days arent worth marrying anyways as they have "lived it up" a lot with plenty of differnt people I can assure you.
Also, marriage is too much of a hassle, you're much better off without it. You might get lonely every once in a while, but you'll have loads of money and no one to answer to.
So, stay single, and if women give your thier special thang, never turn it down. Why buy the cows when the milk is free, right?
If you do change your mind and decide to marry, do it with a woman that has low milage and will not give you all kinds of crap. Oh an make sure she has good genes. What I mean by this is look at her mom, thats how your wife will look in 20 years. So if her mom is butt ugly, then you probably don't want to be stuck with this chick in 20 years.
2007-02-07 21:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Billy Bob D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the name definitely does not help. But, I am also single and have not immediate interest in marrying.
By the way, if you want sex; the last thing you want to do is marry.
Keep your options open, but don't be tricked/blackmailed into marriage and you are right that being financially secure is a better situation for having kids.
2007-02-07 21:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Marc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's great you know what you want and .am not married and .I have not plan to ever being a married to any man .I love my life its all about me and no children just me and.as for me .I seen so much abuse men are old or young are immature I see no good in marriage . I respect you .but why are you call sandy .am sure that does not help .but who care what people think good luck
2007-02-07 21:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you're not gay. I believe you. If you don't want to get married that's fine. Just let girls know that you're not interested in getting married or having kids up front.
2007-02-07 21:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you know who you are and you know what you are looking for. There are people out here that do think that way maybe not about marring for sex. Good Luck and Happy Hunting.
2007-02-07 21:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your choice.. It is ok to stay single and never marry. Some people never choose to marry and that is ok. You are not gay or weird.
2007-02-07 21:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋