My husband went to a strip club where he made arrangements to meet a stripper at a motel for a private dance. They met several times. He said they had oral sex only. Would you believe him? We are now separated over this.
2007-02-07 12:42:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The jig was up when I discovered emails. Then the cell phone records, then the credit card statements. I interrogated till he fessed up.
2007-02-13 06:07:32 · update #1
I don't think it matters. Oral is still MORE than enough. Time to say goodbye.
2007-02-07 20:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to ex-President Bill Clinton oral sex is not sex. Of course most everyone disagreed with him. As far as your hubby is concerned I have a question for you. Why in the heck did he even tell you about the strip club and the stripper. I'm not sticking up for him at all, just think he is rather stupid for several reasons.
Get a lawyer, divorce the dude and get on with you life. He won't change his lifestyle, but might change strippers.
2007-02-13 05:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? He could have gotten oral sex in a car. Sex is sex rather it's oral or intercourse. What does the stripper say? What if you was to come home to you and give a STD? Don't take him back I wouldn't believe a word he says. MOVE ON ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT!!!!
2007-02-14 07:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i stripper who makes any real money wouldnt waste her time meeting someone for oral sex. if hes admitted to this there was probably more. im really sorry, stripper or not you dont mess with married men.
2007-02-11 12:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by lilmama24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am sorry that you are going through this one., But I personally can't belive he told you that, just like the other person stated if he told you that, then I'm sure there is more to it.
It sounds like a prostitute not a stripper.
2007-02-12 14:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Hard Core Dance Poles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is sex Matt. 19:9 its your decision to divorce or stay married.
2007-02-13 17:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by pappyg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only oral huh? "Only oral" happens when you don't want to fully admit adultery. Good for you, stay strong.
2007-02-13 13:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy VanB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex only...believe him if you want but you would be naive.
2007-02-13 12:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, for him to even admit this is insane, but it's probably only half the truth, you should leave, lord only knows who all the stripper has slept with and your man has now exposed you to it.
2007-02-08 00:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't believe him either if he had oral sex he screwed her too
2007-02-11 05:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋