See I am 13 and I was adopted at birth. I have no idea where my real parents are or who they are my so-called parents are 67 years old and wont tell me anything about them or sex. I started menstruation a year ago and when I told my mom she didn't say anything and drove me to the store and gave me some money and then waited in the car. Please help me!!!
2007-02-07 12:33:49 · 16 answers · asked by dstar 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
A previous question you asked was (and I quote):
How do I transfer a power point presentation to a CD or disk on a IBM T42 laptop?
please it is for my job and if i cant do it in 2 days i get fired
So, you are only 13 but you are doing this sort of work? Yeah, sure.
2007-02-07 12:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
As far as sex goes, does your school have sex education? If not, I think it would be a good idea to go to the school nurse and ask her/him if you can set up a private meeting to discuss sex.
And about being adopted. This might be something you have to wait until you are 18 to do. You can try to find out what adoption agency your parents adopted you at, but your records may be private. Sorry kiddo, good luck, everything will work out!
2007-02-07 22:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by PrettyWifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your problem. One approach is to insist on having a conversation with your adopted mother. Simply tell her you want her to give you information about your body and if you don't get it from her you will be picking information up on the street and have no way of evaluating it (the information). Or, go to the library, or on line and look for literature on sex education. There's lots to know and even if you did get information at home, unless the information is based on sound medical information, you should check on line or in the library. Much has been written on the subject. This issue is not new with you. Good luck. Remember, its all part of life.
2007-02-07 21:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are the ones that raised you from birth, as for your biological parents, maybe it could be someone in your family because most adaptive parents cant be old and have to be in good health to adopt. Please talk to your mother about u wanting to know your heritage, there is a lot of online investigation you can do to find that out. as for the female questions, older generation women feel really uncomfortable talking about this issue. If she wont talk to you about this and sex, and you have no one else to talk to, try to talk to a nurse or a free clinic they can explain things to you, and give you the correct info. Feel free to contact me if needed. My daughter is 13 as well i try to tlak to her about these things and always have, i dont think she listens or doesn't feel; comfortable talking to me yet. But she knows i am here, but be sure to talk to an adult and not another child, Hope everything works out.
2007-02-08 00:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by DITZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get sex ed in school. I'm 15, and I had it in grades 5, 6, 7, 8 and 9. And the grade 10s and 11s got it again too.
2007-02-07 20:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by *Lizz* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anyone else in your family you can confide in................ maybe even a neighbor......................... a teacher at school......
You need to confide in someone because of all the changes you are going through, unfortunately, 67 year old parents assume you already know everything.
2007-02-07 22:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is go to some one in school(an adult) and explain this to them and see if they can help.your parents are 67 yrs.that's pretty old.do you have anyone in the family you can trust.there has to be papers on this somewhere.
2007-02-07 20:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks So bad. You need to explain to your mom that you really need to be able to talk to her about this kinda stuff. Tell her that you understand that its uncomfortable, but she needs to be able to talk to you about major things that have happened (or may happen) in your life. It is part of her responsibility as a parent, and unfair to deny you. Chin upp!! <3333333333333
2007-02-07 20:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by chica</3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go speak with your school nurse. She can help you with your sanitary options during your period. You'll probably have to wait until you're 18 to search out information on your biological parents.
2007-02-07 20:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if you wanna know about sex, read some books (i know it's embarrassing to check them out lol but you will probably never see the people again!) and also talk to her or your counselor @ school about how she isn't like supporting you or anything hope this helps
⥠:)
2007-02-07 20:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋