ok so i have a BIG crush on this guy for like a long time. i dont know if he even notices me. I see him sometimes but not very often tho. and when i do see him...we talk just a little. and i have liked him for a very long time. im usually very outgoing but idk. so how could i get him to notice me more??? plz help me
2007-02-07 12:14:45 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
um i do flirt with him...and not to brag or anything i think i AM pretty. a lot of people say i am....and i can usually get any guy i want...but this one....is just so...!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 12:21:04 · update #1
HES NOT GAY!! HE HAS went out with girld before....trust me...hes the farthest thing away from gay
2007-02-07 12:25:31 · update #2
Keep talking to him. That's the only thing you can to if you want to be sure he notices you.
2007-02-07 12:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by KristaElizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, I have the same problem. And I'm not sure how to deal with it either. But I've been thinking about it, and I suggest that you should start talking to him more. Like, try to be his friend and all. Don't flirt too much, because then it'll be too obvious. Just try to talk to him more and more and maybe even call him on the phone one day. It'll get better from that. Hopefully. It's worked for me. But yeah, I guess you could do something like that. Hope this helps!
2007-02-07 13:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talking to him, honestly thats the only thing that you can do. if you do anymore you'll look desperate and guys can sense that. the moment he knows he can have you he wont be as interested. so basically what i am telling you is dont play games ok. stop being nervouse hes just a guy, talk to him more and get to know him, that way you will def know that he knows you exist. then once you get to kno him tell him how you feel. i know it will be hard but its what you gotta do, that or move on. if he dosnt like you back dont worry move on. if you are as pretty and confident as you say you are moving on shouldnt be a big prob right? so just go for it, and go into it believing that you can have him whenever you want and that he would be lucky to have you. that way you wont feel as nervous or shy.
2007-02-07 13:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by cutie pie! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there may be several reasons why this guy is giving you the cold shoulder. first of all, he may not be all that impressed with you. first impressions tend to stick until you prove them wrong. or he may be shy and doesn't know how to talk to you or what to say. i know how it feels to not know if a guy notices you. what i've figured out is that a lot of guys are just not observant. it's not that they're ignoring you, but they sometimes don't pick up on hints that you're giving them. you may want to put more effort into getting him to notice you, but don't come on too strong. just go out of your way to make conversation with him and always SMILE.
2007-02-07 14:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt with him alot that's what I do. I'm really pretty to and flirting usually works for me. Or you could just ask him out.
2007-02-07 12:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more forward about it, and if he still doesnt notice it, then he's just not interested. Guys usually notice pretty quickly if a girl is into them.
2007-02-07 12:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u should really be yourself.. but i have had tons of guy experiances, if he really likes u he would like talk to u and stuffu dont have to do anything to try to get his attention.. just be ur self anf if he likes u he will come to u.
2007-02-07 13:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Archie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice and find some things that you have in commen and talk to him about that with him.
P.S. what is his name
2007-02-07 13:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by lolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you should go for it. Drop some hints that you are interested in him.
2007-02-08 02:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by CindayYEAHYYYY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt w/ him
2007-02-07 12:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by varsitycheer<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋