Why do guys have to be so nasty about breaking up..?

Question

I was always understanding and putting him first ... I didn't do nothing to drive him so mad but I found out he had lied to me about A-Z and I still give him another chance to clear his name.. instead he just used put downs and how he never wanted to be with me... I didn't force him or anything to be with me

he asked me out..he was chasing me the inter time

Why do guys have to be so nasty about breaking up why can't they be just mature about it?

Answer 1

I feel bad about the pain you've gone through.

Perhaps he did this just so he could have a story to tell his friends. There are a number of groups of guys that do this on purpose. Sad but true.

Okydoky ..... how to make sure this does not happen again.

group dating - - - have a group of your friends and his go out for dinner together. If any of his friends are jerks, he probably is one also.

repeat stories - - listen to the stories he tells you. at a later time - say couple days, have him tell a couple of them again & stop him and ask questions while he re-tells them - ask questions about what he learned etc etc ...... if you feel the story has changed - chances are he is lying about the story just to impress you.

writting as an indication of education - - - if you like him, ask him to write you a short love story (handwritten). If it sucks on penmanship, vocabulary and ideas..... chances are he is a retard and you should leave him alone, because only retards do what has been done to you.

good luck ...... & i would suggest searching or being searched by guys online - - you can have a profile and just send it to who you are interested in - - - say yahoo personals. That way you can chat first and use the public records via internet to do a background search. My wife and I met online ( & it does not have to be for marriage, can be just for dating ) and she did a background check on me.

Answer 2

You will find in the crazy game of life 2 things: men don't mature very fast and they don't have half the heart women do. You can give a man the moon and stars and he will treat you like you never gave him anything. Not all men are like this, but the vast majority are. My advise is if he puts you down or calls you names you would be better of without him. Life is to short and there is someone out there who will appreciate you!

Answer 3

Not all guys are nasty in their break ups, only the ****** ones are. You must be much better than he is... especially since he was chasing you and then was lying to you. I wouldn't let him bother you. Move onto bigger and better things! Trust me there are much better guys out there and you'll find someone better! Just have confidence in yourself and brush him off, as he's not worth any feelings or emotions from you. Good luck!

Answer 4

I don’t think all guys are like that. I know I’m not. But don’t even get yourself upset over this just move on and don’t worry about it. Just because you wasted your time with one jerk doesn’t mean you should keep wasting time being upset over it. I hope you meet someone who treats you right and is more mature. Good luck.

Answer 5

i'm certain he left for in basic terms this evening. If he would not come back, tell him that's not your or his fault and it is going to probably not in any respect ensue back. It turned right into a one time element. If he nevertheless would not come back, then promote off him. it will then be obtrusive that he will go away you interior the furture at situations that you want him.

Answer 6

it is obvious that you made him mad at some point in your relationship. there are other men in the world, go get another one and stop beating yourself up over this guy.....

Answer 7

He is a bum your better off away from him. Guys dont mature as fast as girls

Answer 8

Don't judge all guys because of your one run in. Some are immature. They are immature guys, but their are some girls out their who are just as vindictive.