need advise and help on how to trust him again
2007-02-07 12:09:08 · 7 answers · asked by emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have been with my husband for 13 yrs, never unfaithful even with that my husband checked up on everything i done! anywhere i went he was checking behind me! all bc of lies and rumors! they can ruin lives! maybe its just me but it pisses me off! im not sure how 2 rebuild the the trust, the trust i had n him!
2007-02-07 16:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sorta-kinda think my ex had a detective check up on me for a period of one week. It was sometime between the time I asked him for a divorce (June 2001) and he filed for divorce (Sept 2003). There was one week where I just "felt" there was someone following up on me as I went about my daily duties. I really didn't care, and wasn't nervous. When I wasn't at home or work, I was just visiting my folks or siblings, so there was no issue. I was angry with him, though, because I thought it to be a total waste of money.
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2007-02-07 20:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's checking up on you, chances are HE doesn't trust YOU. Without any more details, I can't offer any advice.
2007-02-07 20:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by fragilemind30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I checked on the wife and found out that she was cheating.
2007-02-07 20:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. once, i saw my husbands car following me after work and he called me while i was driving and i asked him if he's following me coz i can see his car on the other lane. he just laughed. i kind of feel good about it though coz my husband never paid too much attention to me. that was the time when i went back to work after i gave birth to our son. nothing harmless, he did not catch me coz there was nothing to catch anyway. i just let him coz if you explain and being defensive about it, he's not going to stop. he got tired of it and stop.
2007-02-07 22:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i have not had this happen. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and why. Tell him this really bothers you and to please not to do it again as it really hurt you. why did he feel he had to check up on you anyway?
2007-02-07 20:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my wife often call her mother whenever she suspects anything.
and than my mom-in-law ask me more than million questions.
god !! that is so weird.
2007-02-07 20:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by ANTHONY A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋