Why would someone who is gay?

Question

Call themselves a fag?

Cause it's degrading to you isn't it?

You're obviously just a coward.

You let them call you fag, and you do nothing about it, but say it's degrading when they do. Then you turn around and call yourself a fag. I don't get it dude.

I'm not saying you have to do anything everytime you get called a fag, the fact that you don't makes you a bigger man. But what I'm trying to get at is, if there are gays out there that don't like being called a fag, and they voice their opinion on it, how will the people who call others fags know that this is wrong, when there's you running around calling himself a fag?

Yeah it does! And you're not turning anything around you're just proving to the people that call you fag that you are less than they are, and ok with it. And why do you feel the need to inform everyone that you are gay? I like pussy and you don't see me running calling my self and man whore.

a man whore*

Alright all you're doing is perpetuating the negative use of that word. I'm sorry you went through hell bro, I feel bad for you I really do, but why would you want that for anyone else when you could just help stop the use of the word in the first place. So it's an eye for an eye and that makes it all better?

Answer 1

Cuz everybody else calls me one, so why not?

EDIT: Yes it is degrading, but I really don't give a rat's @ss. ppl can call me whatever they want.

EDIT 2: I guess that makes me a coward, then, even though i openly admit that I like d*ck and am quite proud of it. If that makes me a coward, then so be it. "Phag" is just a word. I choose to take something that has always been an ugly, vicious and hate-filled word, and turn it around into something to be proud of. That is just my little way of challenging and provoking thought in people. Does that make me a coward?

EDIT 3: Fine, you win, I'm a coward. I guess I do have some sort of massive self-hate complex. I guess spending three years in hell being shoved into lockers and finding someone's used condom in my backpack pretty much f*cked me up emotionally. Oh, and the reason why I run around announcing my gayness is cuz I've had "straightness" thrown in my face my entire life. I guess it's just my little way of trying to get revenge. What a cowardly thing to do, huh?

Answer 2

Hottie's here again! *lol* its the guy who looks freakishly like you! :)

I think gay people use it just because... its a word, nothing more.

This is my opinion, so I may be wrong. I just think ''do what you want''. Thats the best philosophy. Just do what the hel you want. If you are gay, so what? Just have fun! Rock on sisteerz! *lol* me :)


To Riley:- it sounds to me like you've had bullying, so yes I sympathise. I hope people accept you- its your life, try your best to ignore stuff. You sound upset so I hope you are well. Have fun, whatever you do. Who cares if you are gay? I don't, its simply a label. Have a nice day! :)