I am wondering how old my son should be too lose his virginity
2007-02-07 11:35:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
when he is mature enough to take responsibility for his own actions....that varies person to person....
is he old enough to take responsibility for pregnancy? is he mature enough to use protection at the time..?
if this is a serious question then the above is my serious answer :)
its all in the maturity....im sure you son will be ready to go for it before he is completely emotionally mature however its for you to influence him in the right direction...
good luck!
2007-02-07 11:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jia K 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There is no magic number or specific "deflowering age." Make sure to keep the lines of communication open or he will feel like he needs to hide things from you. He needs to be aware that his sexuality is not a dirty little thing and it is normal. Your job is to make sure he is aware of his options and when it is time to make that decision at least he will be informed (safe sex). Explain the benefits of waiting for marriage and all of that institutional crap.
2007-02-07 12:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when he is about 45 and married
2007-02-08 07:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by gregg4u2love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow old enough!!! i lost mines at 16, there is no age limit but sex need to be planned, if he get a baby, how would u feel? he shouldnt even be having sex untill he is mature enough for consiquences such as an unplanned pregnancy!!!
2007-02-07 11:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Eugene 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would say at least 16 but teach him to be safe and what he needs to know. Some at 16 are more mature mentally and phyically than others, only you can tell.
2007-02-07 11:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
He needs to be old enough to not have to get your permission!
2007-02-07 12:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by cuban friend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OLD enough to be married and responsiable enough to be a father.
2007-02-07 11:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no specific age only in love and married.
2007-02-07 15:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it should be only at marriage, not before that.
2007-02-07 11:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
When ever he feels he is ready. Sometimes its 15 sometimes later it's all about how you feel on it and how fast he develops. Good luck
2007-02-07 11:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by metalcow101 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋