2007-02-07 11:26:53 · 14 answers · asked by lovegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What's wrong with flirting? My husband does it, and I pick on him about it:P, but I know I have nothing to worry about because I know who he is going to share his bed with at night.
2007-02-07 11:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to tell unless you have reason that he is cheating on you. Flirting I think is harmless. Not only men flirt while on the job but women do as well but sometimes what people see as flirting might just be that they're comfortable with each other. We spend more time with the people at work then the people we live with. I'm sure it's nothing - but if you're really upset about it, talk to him. If his reaction to your question turns into a big fight, then look into it further. If he doesn't react negatively then it's nothing for you to worry about.
2007-02-07 19:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by princessk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do not have any spies at the office I don't know how you will find out but heres a good clue if you nag alot and you don't flirt with him and your husband likes attention and you don't give him attention than... you should get down to some serious fliriting and take care of business at home and don't spend your time worried about what is or not happen at the office!!
2007-02-07 19:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by sexychocolatecity21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could come right out and ask him! Now there's a concept!!! There's nothing wrong with flirting, people do it every day, and it is perfectly harmless,... that is- until the flirters act on their flirtations and take it a step above .. hmmm..then you're in trouble. Just ask your husband if he is. If he is, ask him why he does it? And if he comes back at you asking why you're so jealous of his flirtations, dont' be surprised. ... since 99% of the male and female population flirt.
2007-02-07 19:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting isn't a bad thing, he might do it and no realize it. It is when the flirting goes to the next level that you have to worry about. Just keep a look out for any suspicious behaviors.
2007-02-07 19:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be the harm? If he's not trying to get with these women, as long as they know he's married and respect those boundaries, what's the big deal?
2007-02-07 19:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately u will never know until or if it should turn into a full blown affair and he asks u for a divorce, as my ex carried on an affair for 2 years right under my nose, and i knew nothing about it until he asked for a divorce to be with the other woman.
2007-02-07 19:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its flirting not sex. I travel with my job and flirt with girls all the time. it gets me free upgrades on my hotel room, my rental cars and i have even been upgraded to first class on several flights.
also what you consider flirting he might think of as being nice
2007-02-07 22:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by smjohnson55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking this question and trust your husband. Unless you have valid reason to think he is being unfaithful, put such thoughts out of your mind.
2007-02-07 19:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him when he says he doesn't flirt. You did marry him. You should not have gotton married if you had no trust. If you DID trust him, and things have changed, then you two need to talk.
2007-02-07 19:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by RAE-J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋