Ok well i really like my boyfriend but only as a friend and i know he really REALLY likes me but i only want to be friends. he is real sweet and i also need some ways to break up with him without hurting him.
and also there is a dance coming up and we are going and i am afriaid that he is going to try to make a move.
i need anyones opinion or advice please leave something!!!!
thankz
2007-02-07 11:25:15 · 13 answers · asked by jess98gum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be completely honest with him.Said it straight forward and
don't beat around the bush.Once you come clean,you'll feel much better.He's really going to appreciate your honesty instead
of leading him on and waiting until he fell deeply in love you
and you broke his heart..Honesty is the best way to go.
make sure you do it face to face if you can in a private place.
there might be a chance of some sad emotions and you don't want to do that in front of anyone because then it'll be too embarrasing.be honest and say what you feel.He'll be glad you did..Good luck!
2007-02-07 11:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Digz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he really likes you u need to tell him the truth b4 he gets anymore attached. tell him how u feel in the nices way u can. juss be like yeah i really enjoyed the time we had together n you r soo sweet. but i dont think i feel the same way bout you as you feel for me n i would want you to have someone thats feels for u as you do for them soo this isnt goin to work out! i want you to be happy n i think that someone else will enjoy you very much! then be like i would love to still be friends with you cuz i want you still iin ma life!
2007-02-07 19:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by js_scooby123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you need to tell him. There is no way you can do it without hurting him butthe longer you wait the more you will hurt him.tell him how you feel and leave it at that. He will hurt for a while but he will get over it
2007-02-07 19:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by cherytwist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so weird because the same thing is up with me. I tried to break up with him and I was like i really want to be your friend but that's it. I couldn't force myself to do it though because i was best friends with his cousin who kept sayin he'd be crushed! i still haven't done it yet but if he's a real bf and really cares about me he'll understand.I'm just going to say that i'd rather be friends and if we go to the dance i want to go as friends! please don't be mad at me!!!
2007-02-07 19:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty never hurt anyone
why wait till the dance and miss the chance to go with someone else
tell him how you feel he'll get over it trust me he'd rather you were truthful now then find out you like someone else later
2007-02-07 19:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by oct2855 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to tell him before it wounds up hurting both of yall but u should break it to him easily maybe you could say: i really like u but just as friends and i dont think us goin out is really gonna work but i would really like to be friends. then maybe u can still go to da dance wit him but just as friends
2007-02-07 19:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by simply lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop hurting yourself AND him by staying in a relationship you're not happy with. Do yourself a favor... let go of that mouse...hands AWAY from the keyboard, pick up that phone, call him and dump him immediately.
2007-02-07 19:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this happened to me as well. I just told him that I didn't feel comfortable "dating", but would LOVE to be friends! He probably will then get all immature like all rejected boys do. Then as time goes on you will forget about it. I'm like best friends with my ex.
2007-02-07 19:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecka lovebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is noway you can tell a guy you don't want to date him anymore and not hurt him. Just try to be as nice as possible, and try to act normal with him after that.
2007-02-07 19:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Yay me!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him. tell him that you don't have feelings for him that way, but don't just say "it's over" explain say it slow and maybe he will understand. don't worry i promise everything will be fine. you can do this without breaking his heart.
2007-02-07 19:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by mebust_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋