I am scared!What should i do????

Question

Ok i am 14 almost 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant i am scared to say anything to my grandma because she said if i ever got pregnant she would send me to a home for pregnant girls. i babysit and i know how bad having ababy when you are a teen is i am only a freshman in high school and i am against abortion. many of you will tell me to tell my grandma. well i took a pregnancy test and it said pos... What should i tell the father omg i am scared... HELP

Answer 1

Well you are right. You should tell your Grandma because sooner or later you are going to show and then she knows anyway.
What you should do first though is make a doctors appointment and see if you really are. I mean those tests are usually right but there are cases where there was a false result.
After that you should sit down with the father and your Grandma and tell them.

Good Luck

Answer 2

Well, I think if you had a positive pregnancy test, then you are most likely pregnant. You have to tell your Grandma, and I know that is scary, but you may be surprised. You need help regardless of if it comes from your Grandma or someone else. You are too young to do this on your own. You are going to have a hard road ahead of you, but if you are going to have this baby, and you work really hard, you can do it. Your Grandma may be really angry at first, so give her some space, and let her come to terms with your pregnancy. You need to tell the father. Also, most communities have an abortion alternatives centers, or right to life organizations. They can help you get some of the support you are going to need. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

It is just going to be easier to come right out and tell them. It is better that they find out from you and not from someone else. As far as your grandmother sending you away, I doubt she really would. My mother always said she would disown and send me to live with my aunt and uncle. When my mother found out that I was having sex at 16, she didn't do anything and just wanted to know why I wouldn't tell her. It would make you feel alot better just to tell her that way you are putting yourself and the baby through stress. I am very proud of you for being against abortion. You will be suprized that this is not the end of the world. I know many people that went to school while pregnant and they weren't made fun of because it is pretty accepted in society now. I wish you and your baby the best of luck.

Answer 4

Please tell your grandmother. I went through the same situation (only I was 20 and about to be married, but that doesn't change how terrified I was) You always imagine situations being worse than they actually will be. You and your baby need medical care. I know it's very scary. The sooner you tell her the better- you don't need the stress of keeping this inside of you. The two of you need to decide what to do. I'm very happy you're against abortion! If you (and your grandmother because at your age you will need help raising a baby) decide to raise this baby- it's going to take a lot of dedication. If you're not ready for the challenges of motherhood, look into adoption. You can find wonderful families that are looking to adopt. Also- pray, pray, pray!! It works wonders!!

Answer 5

Ok i'm not going to preach b/c everyone is going to do that for me. You are going to have to tell your grandmother that you are. I am pretty sure she told you about sending you away if you are to scare you. Now that you are after she gets past the anger and everything she is more and likely going to be supportive and try and help you as best as you can. You can always put your child up for adoption if you think that is best for you. Telling the father should be simple... you are not the only who created this life.. so he is going to have to take responsibility for your child also. Don't be scared... I know you are going to be but try and stay calm. Talk to a counselor a best friend someone who can be there with you and help you all the way. i wish you the best and hope everything turns out for you.

Answer 6

I'm sorry, hon, but you're going to have to tell your guardian, who I suppose is your grandma. She's going to figure it out anyway, and you need to get really good OB care right away.
I'm sure if you just sit down and talk with her and tell her how scared you are, she'll understand and be really supportive. If she's not, well then you might just be better off in a home for pregnant girls.

Seriously, though, what you're going through right now is 10x worse than telling your grandma.

Good luck!

Answer 7

You must tell your boyfriend to find out where you stand with him. You are both very young, but you can turn this into a happy situation.You must tell your grandmother ,explain that you are responsible for your own actions ,if she agrees to support you then all well and good.Ask your doctor for help and guidance.Act wisely you are now a mature person in this situation. Can you get a weekend job and save a little money. How old is the Father ?Is he at school ?He must help you now.

Answer 8

first of all i think it is great that you are against abortion. most people would take that as the easy way out. i know you probably don't want to tell your grandma but she is going to find out soon enough. i had a friend who got pregnant in high school and she was afraid to talk to anyone. she finally talked to our youth leader at church. i don't know if you go to church or have any adult that you could confide in but i know it probably feel a lot better to talk with them. they also would probably go with you when you tell your grandma to have support. your grandma will probably be upset at first b/c of the shock but when the baby is here it will be different. telling the father will have to be a decision you will have to make. i don't know what kind of man he is but hopefully he will want to be there for you and the baby. i hope this helps. i am praying for you.

Answer 9

Okay breath...first you are pregnant you took a pregnancy test and you where positive...so first thing you need to tell your boyfriend...He needs to know that so he can take up the responsibility to back you up here you did not do it on your own...
Secondly you really need to face up the situation I know is hard but you need to tell your grandma...if you are this scared..then try to contact your school counselor..you are so young honey but hey you need to know grow this hard way and assume this big deal...I hope all works good for you and I am at least very proud that you choose life....now if life gives you lemons make a great lemonade..
Good luck!

Answer 10

you young girls need to learn how to practice safe sex because of situation like this now think what is the father gona say you think he is going to man up to the plate and take you in to his home, get a job try to finish school and help you out i highly doubt you find a teenage boy who is willing to do that but not everyone is the same now lets just say he doesn't do everything i just said that means you get to go live with were you grandma is going to send i hope you take this as a lesson and you know everyone has their reason but just to let you know in the future now that you know you can get pregnant use protection and birth control pills and not abortion for a birth controll method because next time it will be your fault not your unborn child OK sorry to come down on you but you kids need to be more educated about these situation Good luck