So me and my best friend got in this fight because she is hanging out with someone i dislike very much i don't mind that but since she hangs out with them and we all sit in the same table i stopped sitting there because i feel that if u have nothing good to say you shouldn't say anything plus so many people were we sit im not friend with and i really don't want any drama. Well after that 5 weeks later i haven't sat with them more then 5 days out of the whole time and we don't even talk anymore now. So i called her the other day and while we were talking i told her about my other friend who said i was ignoring them. I personally think its mutual they don't talk to me why should i talk to them. Last year i did that i would be the one to call to say hi and everything and i stopped that now. He was quite mad. But im mad too they tell my secrets and make them jokes it really hurts my feeling my good friend never talks to me about anything but his gf and if not he is asking me about her. The other day i was sick and he asked and i said i didn't know he insisted i knew then he called to ask he didn't bother much to say hey she is suck i should probably leave her alone. My other friend just ignores me when its not lunch ill say hey and he moves on . Then my best friend just wants me to be friend with the people i don't like its ok she wants that but she almost forces us to be friends its really annoying. I cant help but think maybe i should say sorry but then i hear people tell me that they are wrong. What do u think?
2007-02-07 11:10:27 · 15 answers · asked by lovemusic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Never anything wrong with saying your sorry
2007-02-07 11:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i know what you are going through, and i think that if you are not connecting with you bf any more then you should just leave it be and wait until they approch you...you should not have to settle with ppls that you are not comfortable around because then it would just be ackward and no one will talk to any one else and there will be those weird stares...i hope this helps a bit good luck with everything!
2007-02-07 11:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first off.... i'm confused. But from what I do understand they aren't bieng very good friends. Try talking to them about what's bothering you and if they don't consider your feelings than it might be time for new friends
2007-02-07 11:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look homegurl u should just let them know how u feel sooo they could just think about what they have done 2 there good friend and i'm pretty sure they would feel sorry 2 u and say i'm sorry ...but don't go doing no drama just tell them how u feel on the inside...............i whish i was there 2 help u
2007-02-07 11:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by monica s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say sorry and move on. Or just wait a few days and see if the tension between you guys mellows out on its own and then itll be back to normal.
2007-02-07 11:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by JIMMY j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sorry? And for what? If you can answer those questions then go ahead. If you are sorry then you should apologize. If nothing else at least you will know that you can be proud of your actions.
2007-02-07 11:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont apologize if you havent done anything wrong. You need to help build your own self esteem up because when you apologize when you havent done anything wrong or work hard to convince yourself you have hurt someone its bad for you.
2007-02-07 11:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the better person in this situation... they are making themselves look dumb, and all the more making you the more mature, intelligent individual... way to go... if they were your friends, they would know when you would or would not like a person... good luck
2007-02-07 11:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really shouldn't be a follower.. they should say sorry. So just wait until later for THEM to say sorry. and if you want to say sorry, wait a little while.
CaRoLyN
2007-02-07 11:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not reading all that itd take forever. just b like "hey we're friends so **** bein mad at eachother." and all sing kumbiah
2007-02-07 11:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋