We worked together for just over a year, almost everyday. I saw him all the time, his desk was just behind mine. Since leaving that job, our relationship has progressed, and I should be happy with that. I missed him while he was in another country for a month. But now he is back, and I miss seeing and talking to him, way more than when he was away. I just can't get him out of mind no matter how hard I try. I really miss him, and am close to tears everyday that passes, and I don't see him. Today makes day # 4... I know I'm not losing him, so it's not a fear... I'm just having a hard time not being able to physically see him everyday. How do you deal with this, when its so confusing?
2007-02-07 11:08:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When we realize what true love really is it makes us want to keep that person near us at all times. No fear is not what you are going through. You are experiencing true love. You have come to understand that love has come into your life and you want nothing more then to share every moment of your life with him. You will soon feel better about not seeing him as often as you would like. Remember that tears of love are tears of a happy heart. When love is in your heart your soul have everything it needs. Be at peace with the time you two are apart there is no greater feeling then having a love that will soon return. He fills the empty space you wants felt in your life. Now that he is there to give you everything that he has to give, you can rest even when is not near. Because the love inside you know that the love that is in him is there at all times. No matter if he is at work or out of the country he leaves he love with you. Don't get confuse it's better to have someone in your life to share your love with, then it is not to have someone in your life to share it with. Good luck.
2007-02-07 11:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you cant see him so much then email him or call him at work just to say hi. Meet each other on lunch breaks and have fun! This will get better with time and you will adjust. Do not let this get you down so much he still loves you and your are not losing him in any way.
2007-02-07 19:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this like your first crush or love maybe?
I remember when I first feel deeply in, I always wanted to at least hear her voice on the phone before I went to sleep. Nothing wrong with how you feel, just make sure he knows it and respects it.
Nothing wrong with how you feel. I wish I could stay that way, but the more exp. you get in this game...you learn how to deal with it.
You also need to learn how to keep yourself busy. Don't forget about making yourself happy. Go get your nails done, workout, clean up..whatever to kill time.
2007-02-07 19:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by The Internet Is Yours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is something more here than you care to admit.
Perhaps you need something to say it for you? Okay. I think you/ve fallen for this person and you haven't realized yet and therefore you don't know what do to.
2007-02-07 19:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and buy a lover. seriously find a man to give you pleasure and there is no cost too high that this lover at this time in your life won't be worth every cent!
2007-02-07 19:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just knowing that your loved is great, Jesus loves you, seek Him and you shall find Him.....God bless ya
2007-02-07 20:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋