I had a miscarriage about 2 months ago. I heard that a person needs to wait a year to try again because there might be a problem with the baby if concieved sooner. But I also heard it doesnt matter when. Which one is true??
2007-02-07 11:06:22 · 16 answers · asked by angeleyes_0613 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Unless there was some complication it is safe to begin trying again the next cycle.
2007-02-07 11:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physically most doctors say to wait two months, at least get your cycle back and ensure regularity. In fact, my OB told me 12 years ago after my first miscarriage that women are much more likely to get pregnant because it's like starting witha clean slate.
Emotionally it's an entirely different story. If you think that being pregnant might trigger traumatic memories of your miscarriage, then it is better to wait a little longer. If you are having a baby to 'replace' the one you lost, it's probably better to wait. I know that with my first one there was a lot of fear involved with my next pregnancy, but it turned out well!
I wish you the best, I had a miscarriage last weekend and it is very sad. I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope that you are healing both physically and spiritually.
2007-02-07 14:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a site for women who are going through miscarriages and we've seen that most doctors recommend on average waiting three cycles after a D&C and one cycle after a natural miscarriage. Every physician is different though so check with yours and, honestly, if you are unsure, get a second opinion. I do want to stress there are reasons some doctors may ask you to wait six to twelve months but those are generally in cases of molar pregnancies or some other condition making a pregnancy risky.
There are also studies out there that show women's cycles tend to go back to normal a bit more quickly after a natural miscarriage. In fact, many people believe (myself included) that, on average, women conceive a bit more quickly after a natural miscarriage. With a D&C, this is a surgical procedure, and you do need to give your uterus a little more time to heal.
Honestly, on the site, we've seen that most women who conceive within a few cycles of a miscarriage go on to have a normal pregnancy. Of course there are occasional repeat miscarriages but odds are definitely in your favor.
Just take what you learn and discuss it with your physician and, again, don't be afraid to seek out a second opinion.
2007-02-07 11:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kay C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage on Jan. 24th and I have my follow up appt. tomorrow so I can better answer your question then. However, my friend miscarried last year and they told her as soon as she felt up to it she could start trying again and she got pregnant a month later, she's due in April but so far everything looks good. I've heard 3 months but that is the longest I've heard to wait, but like I said I will find out for sure tomorrow, and I don't know about u but I plan to start trying again as soon as I get the green light. I'm sorry for your lost and I hope all goes well with your next one. Good Luck
2007-02-07 11:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter. You certainly dont have to wait a year thats rediculas. I had a miscarraige in June of 95 and was pregnant again by July and my daughter is now 11 years old they say its best to wait a few months but you have already done that. So i suggest just try again when you feel ready that is the best time, the time that is right for you. Good luck.
2007-02-07 11:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on the person and their emotional or physical state. I had a miscarriage in August 2006 at 6 weeks. I did not have to have a D&C and my doctor said it was okay to try again after one menstural cycle. I'm now 14 weeks.
2007-02-07 11:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say what the general statistics are but I had two close miscarriages and got pregnant again exactly 9 months later. That baby survived and is now 5 years old. When your done bleeding and cramping and just overall feel fine and your pap is fine,go ahead.
2007-02-07 11:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My sister in law was told to wait three months after hers, she did. End result, a very happy healthy baby. I have always heard three months, but there may be some cases when a the DR wants you to wait longer.
2007-02-07 11:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by snarf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am secondly agreeing with some of this answers...you should go to the doctor and recheck how you are doing and how your uterus and all your insides are doing, if you had a miscariage you need to find out why this happened that will help you determine what are your possibilites..the bottom line is go to see your Ob/Gyn and express your feelings to conceive again. Never leave an office with doubts...
Good Luck!
2007-02-07 11:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by karaya6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your OB/GYN is your best person to answer this question. Usually it is recommended that you wait until you have two or three normal menstrual cycles before trying to conceive. I miscarried in November and was pregnant by January. My baby was born the following October with no problems. A healthy little girl. But please follow up with your doctor, and follow his recommendations. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-07 11:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Kristine M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you feel your body is ready, it's okay. That's just a precaution that doctors take. I had a miscarriage and less than 2 months later conceived my healthy daughter. I'm so sorry for your loss.
2007-02-07 11:10:24 · answer #11 · answered by JACQUELINE T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋