Happily married 16 yrs and NO this isnt a problem its a BLESSING.Well anyways hubby is 42 and for yrs my sex drive seemed higher then his well for the last yr or 2 his sex drive has seemed to gotten higher and last night he said he wanted to start giving me oral which he never has(This has never bothered me cause he totally satifies me during sex)He said he has been waiting to give me oral for awhile but didnt know how i felt about it. So any thoughts on what has changed in him..This is a good change and beleive me im NOT complaining lol. I love giving him oral BUT i never ask him about giving me oral cause i didnt know how he would feel about it and like i said it never bothered me.
2007-02-07 10:59:51 · 7 answers · asked by sally d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
with someone..NO i was his girlfriend and when we met he was 25 and still a virgin.
2007-02-07 11:07:56 · update #1
i mean i was his first girlfriend
2007-02-07 11:08:36 · update #2
Dont start with this cheating crap...jeez
2007-02-07 11:09:12 · update #3
Who the hell says i think he is having an affair.He is a good man,a great husband and treats me like a queen and he wouldnt hurt me like that.
2007-02-07 11:15:20 · update #4
Never accused him of having an affair...damn sorry i ask this lol
2007-02-07 11:16:47 · update #5
no he isnt taking any kind of medications
2007-02-07 14:45:04 · update #6
My mom and her husband went through this also. He only had sex with his first wife before my mom, so trying new things was hard for him. It just took awhile to open up. There was no reason why at that time he decided to try new things. Just happened.
2007-02-07 11:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sonya N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what's your problem then? If you think it's a good change, then why are you questioning it? Do you think he could be having an affair, like everyone here will tell you he's doing. Maybe he read an article in Cosmo or Men's Health or something like that, and finally figured out how to do it--yes, he may not have known, but certainly wasn't going to tell YOU that. If you think he's having an affair, I'd want a heck of alot more evidence than the fact that he's wanting more sex, and getting a little more adventurous in the bedroom, before I went and drove a nail right into the heart of my happy marriage of 16 years. Because you know, if you accuse him of an affair, you'll rip his guts out if he's not having one.
2007-02-07 19:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I was a virgin. I regret I lost my virgnity/male virginity for someone I don't care. I admire your husband. Now I have to keep myself in abstinence and wait for that special someone and be married and have all the sex life I have been craving for.
Kudos for your hubby
2007-02-07 19:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is taking any medications that could be doing it or he might be taking vitamins or some other supplement or he might have just released some pent up testosterone that he didn't know he even had lol.
But any how like larry the cable guy says, "Getter done". lol
2007-02-07 21:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by n0s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has a buddy or a new guy at work that has discussed oral and he wants to try it. Just lay there and take it and enjoy
2007-02-07 19:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change like this is sometimes an indication of an affair.....not that I'm saying he's HAVING one, but it's a sign.
Keep your eyes open for any red flags.
2007-02-07 19:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it could be a number of things...he may have been with someone else who insisted on it and he decided he liked it....or he could just be getting into a new groove...just go with it and enjoy...good luck
2007-02-07 19:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋