I am so disappointed. I feel that God is punishing me. This is just so hard to deal with. I am beginning to wonder if this will ever happen for me. I am just so sad.
2007-02-07 10:19:46 · 17 answers · asked by SusieeQ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Good. Give up. Stop trying. Then you will get pregnant because sex will be fun again. I know everyone says don't try and it will happen. I tried for over 18 months.. then I gave up and found out I was pregnant the next month. Enjoy making a baby. Don't let it be a chore. Nobody likes chores. Make love to your husband. Throw out charting for a month or so... See if that helps. Good luck and baby dust from me and my one on the way!!!!!!
2007-02-07 10:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, SuzieQ--a lot of people get pregnant when they stop worrying about it so much. I knew a couple who were together since their mid-twenties, and did not have their first child until they were in their late 30s--when they totally gave up.
Sometimes people are even told by doctors that they can't have children--as soon as they start talking about adoption--they become pregnant!
Feel better, I don't think God is punishing you, it will happen probably at the least expected time.
2007-02-07 18:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time. I know it is frustrating, but it will happen. How many months has it been? It took us about 3-4 months to get pregnant and I was starting to feel the same way. The funny thing is it seems to happen when you least expect it.
2007-02-07 18:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear of your disappointment. It's disheartening to hear that you think God is punishing you...maybe it's just not the right time in your life. Try to think positive!
2007-02-07 18:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you think about it, the less likely it is to happen. Stress can actually mess your whole ovulation off, not to mention too much stress can cause hormones that attack sperm!
Have you both been tested? Give it time, and just enjoy the time you have alone together. Relax, and it will happen when it's time.
2007-02-07 18:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by EYoungmom88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God does not punish. We punish ourselves. Try to not be so hard on yourself and relax a bit. It will come in God's timing. Keep the faith.
2007-02-07 18:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting pregnant can be so tricky, whenu try it takes forever and when u give up, u end up pregnant. Im 1 month and 3 days and i didnt concieve until i stopped wrrying bout it. I know the frustration but you'll get there...i'll pray for you!
2007-02-07 18:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings, I have experience a few losses in the past two years. Most recent 1/07...please join me on www.ladiesplace.net/community...I have tips and tricks, genetic testing and signs of ovulation.
I am still TTC after many many discussions on giving up ...thinking it will NEVER happen to us..
2007-02-07 18:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by ChelYox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad, just keep trying. Maybe you should try fertilization treatments. If it is meant to be it will happen, if not you can always adopt. Good Luck.
2007-02-07 18:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up hope. Remember that everything happens for a reason. And I am sure your day will come soon... Good luck and best of wishes.
2007-02-07 18:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by EMT_B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋