2007-02-07 10:11:49 · 20 answers · asked by Era S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u need 2 tell him about himself and let him know u're not gonna put up with it and if he still does make him pay by sleepin on the couch
2007-02-07 10:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this, but I think your problem may be more common than you think. Sounds like he's harboring resentment towards you, just remember it's not your fault. He may be going through his own things, especially if you're both around 24 years old. He may be frustrated that he didn't have more relationships before getting married. He may be worried about money, or his status or position at this point in his life. Men in their mid 20s see the lifestyles glorified on television and movies, which makes them believe they are not "successful" unless they have frequent and various relationships, casual sex, lots of money, the right car/truck, etc. and a lot of other things that are not really healthy or pactical for married life. Hopefully, he will come around soon. If not, you might be wise to seek counseling or even a worse case-divorce, but I can tell you he will probably be pretty lost without you if you leave/separate. I wish you the best in this hard situation.
2016-05-24 04:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people insult their partners to hide their own insecurities, putting someone else down makes them feel better about themselves.
You cannot put up with this because it will leave you feeling really low and lacking in self confidence. Maybe he doesn't realise he does it or doesn't realise how it makes you feel.
Have a serious conversation and explain how you feel, tell him that you don't deserve to be treated that way and that his attitude towards you needs to change because as much as you love him you can't live a life time of insults.
2007-02-07 19:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do? Tell him to not let the door hit him in the butt on his way out. One requirement I'd very strongly suggest to you for a guy to be in your life is respect.. Your guy isn't respecting you--not by a long shot. His behavior suggests very much that he may well abuse you physically as well as verbally (which is what he is doing). I'm sure you feel love for him but I can tell you as a guy with long experience, there is NOTHING in his behavior that even remotely resembles love. He's using you as a verbal punching bag and the future is very likely to include physical abuse. Why do you not respect yourself and require others to respect you?
2007-02-07 10:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you love some one who has absolutely no use for you? this makes absolute no sense at all. Do you think he will change his mind some day? this is not going to happen, you need to wake up this is not your dream man he is a nightmare. get out and meet really men that can and will accept you , not reject and abuse you. You deserve better
2007-02-07 10:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want this to continue? Talk to him. Tell him whats going on and how you feel. If he seems not to care or just continue, maybe it's time to say good-bye. Love lasts forever. And it takes to in order to create that love. If this is happining, I don't think it's love yet. If you do say good-bye, a better guy will come along and he will treat you right and make you feel good about yourself.
2007-02-07 10:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by funfriend2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he insults you then why are you with him? you dont deserve that and you shouldnt have to deal with it. its not physical abuse but it is mental. trust me- you dont want to be in a relationship like that cuz Im sure it will be awful for you. get out of the relationship before he hurts you. good luck!
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2007-02-07 10:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him To Swifell. He should be privileged that someone loves him like you do. Treat them mean and keep them keen. You start doing what you want to do and letting him see its not all about him, he will soon panic!
2007-02-07 10:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by jane r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to put up with being cursed at nor being insulted you should just call it quits with him before it just gets whorse for you and a ladie doesnt needed to be treated that way
2007-02-07 10:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by harold g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a taste of his own med s he wo nt like it it will cure him tell him whats good for hin si good for u if thay does nt work then kick him to the kerb
2007-02-07 10:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋