Well first of all, i fell in love with this girl in one of my classes. She has a boyfriend and I'm comfortable with that, but she seems to flirt a lot with me. We're really close friends and we talked for awhile and i told her that I'm in love with her, she felt so bad that i had those feelings for her and she told me how bad she wanted to return the feelings but she cant because she considers me a brother. I cant lose these feelings, any idea on what i should do?
2007-02-07 09:50:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To love doesn't mean to possess. Maybe by considering you as her brother, she can love you more. If your love is truly sincere and you can love her like a brother to a sister, then congratulation...you are a big man, and you should be proud of yourself. I'm saying this, because I know the feeling, and believe me, it's not easy, but this what makes us a better man. Good luck!
2007-02-08 00:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sorrow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, forget about her. She was honest with you and now you have to let your feelings go because she only wants to be your friend and there is nothing you can do about that unfortunatly. Her flirting may seem like flirting because that is what you want it to be but it is probably just her way of being friendly and nothing more. Move on and find a relationship of your own, but there is nothing saying the two of you can't just be friends. If you cannot do this without it hurting you then you should just back away altogether.
2007-02-07 17:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love bad boys. Find out who she hates and start dating them. Trust me, girls can't help themselves they want what they can't have and love to get a bad boy so they can reform him.
2007-02-07 18:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by pinkieslim1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋