Because in my case, when i talk to guys they think that i want to go out with them, which is not my intention. they always think that am into them. how do you know befriend a guy if they always that when you talk to them, you want to go out?
2007-02-07 09:50:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Grab him by the balls and glare at him.
2007-02-07 09:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but your going to receive alot of that, its very rare when a guy and girl are friends and don't have some sort of attraction between them. I mean lets face it the whole reason why a guy and girl talk to each other is because one or the other is attracted to the person. So if you want to befriend a guy and your not attracted to them at all, you gotta be straight forward with them and let them know that a relationship is not what you want, but half of the time that wont even work cause most guys dont get the hint!!
2007-02-07 10:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by badma'amajama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you talk about. Think about what you would say to him if he were your brother.
It's not going to be easy since you are a girl and he is a guy.
In order to make this work, you will need to hide the charm and feminine approach. Feelings are OUT and facts are IN. Just tell him straight out what you want, like another guy would. Tell him that if you get interested in him for more than just talking, he will be the first to know. Otherwise, just save the moves because you're not buying any of it.
If any of his buddies give him some grief, you may have to set them straight as well. Give them the same line about being the first to know too.
Now, as you can imagine, this will squash some of your romantic opportunities, so you will need to be just as intentional with the guy you DO want to date to let him know that he's the one.
2007-02-07 10:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy to be honest, it's always going to be difficult. If you don't know the guy at all that makes it harder, if they are a work colleague or peer talk about really mundane subjects you have in common to start with. Once you get to know them you can speak more freely. Do not in any way be flirtatious to start with - ie. do not engage in much eye contact, keep body language fairly defensive.
2007-02-07 09:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by elliotician 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i find it easiest to befriend guys by being myself...as lame as that sounds...for some reason i get along better with guys...i guess its cuz theres not sooo much cat-y drama...umm...i guess find something that you and the guys have in common..for instance i like video games...so i talk to the guys about that...and well thats our common ground...and what has made our friendship so good
2007-02-07 09:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hot a guy will always want to go out with you :) You need to tell him just as friends which will put it more on a friendship basis, but in the back of his mind he is still thinking how hot you are. So basically to sum it all up... You can't...
2007-02-07 09:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by littletimmytheaxeman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Same with men, we dont want to befriend you we want to do something else to u. If we are talking to you, thats the reason, not to be friends with you. So thats why we think your being nice.
2007-02-07 09:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by x_ampz_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By simply not showing body language that you like them. Pretty much no flirty touching, or verbal content and you should be in the clear. Later on, he'll know you dont like him like that and you could do or talk about anything.
I befriend women, I'm into em' but not so much that I have to date em'...I just keep my lips sealed and keep it to myself
2007-02-07 09:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda hard to do with guys think about it we always are horny and when there is a female around the natural response would be to try and bone you, it causes certain problems when there is a female around, guys start getting in sort of a competition for you
2007-02-07 09:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them the same way you talk to your girl friends. Just try to forget about them being guys
2007-02-07 09:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by D.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to tell them that you just want to be there friend and nothing else but for the most part just act like one of them
2007-02-07 09:54:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋