im 23 years old, im still a virgin, and i dont think im into guy because i have always had feelin for a couple of my friends and im more touchy with the girls and im a tomboy......so i dont know what to do..do you think i fear guys ...but i very good buddies when the guy and the guy treat me like im part of the group. i always thought of them like my brothers never beyond that so im startin to question myself....oh please have one with this answer please!!!!!!!!!! and thanks....
2007-02-07 09:22:57 · 19 answers · asked by oct41983 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off I reported *** Gasket.
Secondly in response to Faisal's answer, homosexuality is an orientation that is genetically linked at birth. It is not a choice it is fact. Read the below proofs certified by the APA.
Anyways, to answer the question. You should probably try to consider attraction to a woman. Do you consider the female body attractive. Do you think about being with a woman and having a relationship with another woman. You have to ask yourself these questions. Perhaps you should try seeking out a support group. Simply enter GLBT support group into a search engine followed by your area code. There's bound to be one somewhere. Seek a place of solace with the community and they will help you through this.
DON'T BE AFRAID, there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian Its just another form of love and love is never wrong. Never fear being who and what you are. We're human too. Good luck to you = )
2007-02-07 09:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you think about being a lesbian, you will make yourself one. you are the only person that can decide. you have the power to say no or yes. It is something you have asked yourself numerous times. You are asexual at the time. there are many people that are asexual.
You also had some gender nonconformity, but you never wanted to be the opposite gender. So you grew into a tomboy so to speak. It is ok to be a tomboy, it is even ok to ask if you are a lesbian, but you should know that you are correct to think it is not the plan of God for you to be a lesbian.
Just because you have not met your soul mate yet, does not mean you never will. It could be just around the corner even. So if you want advice, i would say to you that it is better for you to remain asexual until you meet that young man you will adore.
2007-02-07 09:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well A Lesbian Is A Woman That Is Sexually Mentally And Physical Attracted To Another Woman... So You Have To Experiment With A Woman.. But From What You Told In The Question No Your AreNot A Lesbian You Might Want To Become One.
2007-02-07 09:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear user, it's not a crime to like girls, it happen to everyone even the guys '' it even happen to me sometimes, i.e like when the girls look all hot and so pretty i just fall for them''. so you see liking a girl is not bad. so if you don't see guy like how you see a girl that's alright, because it make no sense to be in a relationship with a guy if you don't want to! what's the sense in that. what the only problem is do your parents know about your feelings for girls. see that can be a big problem for a parents to accept. but either than that do what you want, because in some point in your life you will want to feel that feeling again and that time you can't. follow your heart it will take you a long way.
2007-02-07 09:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by KANDIES 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For all of my gay friends, they all knew when they were in their teens. But I've had quite a few female friends that had the same question. They usually found the answer directly after experimentation. Don't try it with a friend. Check out a gay association and network a bit.
2007-02-07 09:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Big Daddy Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this occasion doesnt sound like homophobia. in simple terms in simple terms the guy concept your sister became a boy and for this reason wouldnt enable her enter. If he didnt elect her to go into via fact she gave the impact of a lesbian then the fast answer is - "neglect approximately it", "Pity their lack of know-how". especially lots in spite of it takes that may additionally assist you progression on which incorporate your day. a guy or woman who makes you sense undesirable isnt rather well worth the time and capability to care approximately. (i be conscious of this appears like submitting to majority yet... ) in case you maintain the haircut... - positioned on female dresses - Have some form of obtrusive female characteristic (handbag, padded bra) - Dont use the bathing room, dodge gender defining circumstances - Use the disabled lavatories in any different case, ditch the hair cut back or elect a short hair form this is far less masuclating.
2016-12-17 04:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if by the time you're 23 you still haven't had romantic feelings for a guy and you feel attracted to women... you are a lesbian...nothing wrong with that though..
2007-02-07 09:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by eddie_baller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is confusing.
That being said, are you attracted to women? If yes, you are a lesbian.
Are you attracted to men? If yes, you are straight.
Are you attracted to men AND women? If yes, you are bisexual.
Only you can answer these questions, and you may not know the answers right now. Live your life, meet cool and wonderful people, and you will figure it out eventually.
2007-02-07 09:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is an almost foolproof test
1. does the idea of you having sex with the hottest guy you can imagine turn you on?
if you answered yes, you are either straight or bi.
if you answered no then you are a lesbian.
Warning:do not take the results of this test as holy writ. it's just an estimation of sorts.
2007-02-07 09:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can label yourself and take that step, nobody else can do that for you, sorry
You just need to look a little deeper and really give yourself a chance to figure yourself out
asking others probably wasn't the best idea, they could just add to your confusion
but, good luck and I wish you well
2007-02-07 09:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Shandi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋