i just recently found out that i am pregnant and i want an abortion. I told my boyfriend that if i am pregnant im gonna get an abortion. however he said no. im catholic and i dont believe in it however i have no choice. isnt there a spanish remedy where you drink a hot malta? i neeed a remedy that i can do home that will drop my egg and make me get my period?
2007-02-07 09:19:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Talk to your doctor or free clinic about the abortion pill. You can tell him you miscarried.
2007-02-07 09:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You always have the choice to do the right thing. Regardless of your situation, your baby is totally innocent and does not deserve to die. I think you know that. You should be thankful that your boyfriend is taking responsibility and that he actually cares about you and your baby. If you are pregnant, there is no "egg" at this point. Just three weeks after conception, your baby's heart is already beating. Take a look at this information before you do something you will regret the rest of your life:
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2007-02-09 08:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are very young. Your first mistake was having unprotected sex if you didn't want to get pregnant. But obviously it's to late for that. What I want to tell you is that absolutely NO one can make that decision for you. If you don't want to continue with your pregnancy you need to have an abortion before you get further along into the pregnancy. Your boyfriend may not like your decision and may not want you to have it done. but it is your body, and your decision. If he loves you, then he should respect the fact that you are not ready. Having a baby is a huge responsibility that will change your life forever. Many people may say continue with the pregnancy and give the baby up for adoption like it's nothing. To give up a child after carrying him/her for 9 months would be a difficult decision because you will bond with the baby during that time. As a mother, I say you have to make this decision on your own. Forget about the pressure from your boyfriend and do what you think is best for you. What ever you decide to do, I wish you the best.
2007-02-07 19:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's no reliable Spanish remedy. And the decision isn't your boyfriend's to make, it's yours (I know, that's easy to say). What you need to do now is contact a reliable adoption agency. Their counselors can help you with all aspects of your decision, including deciding about an abortion and how to deal with your boyfriend. Check the phone book or the internet. Some agencies work exclusively with Catholic families. Make the call.
2007-02-07 17:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no home remedy - if you are going to get an abortion you need to get it done properly, medically, not by some home remedy!
If you really think that abortion is the only way then you don't need your boyfriend to "let" you - its your decision.
2007-02-07 17:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-07 17:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Um, I don't think there are any "home remedies" other than the morning after pill. You can't "make an egg drop" if you are pregnant. Seriously seek a doctor's advice - don't take your medical health into your own hands.
2007-02-07 17:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by carpediemamt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are Catholic and don't believe in it - how is it that you don't have a choice? If you kill this child you will pay for it the rest of your life. Emotionally and physically.
Please don't kill your baby! If you can't raise a child right now, give her to a loving family that will give her a wonderful life. They will pay for your living expenses and medical expenses and sometimes more! There is no reason to murder this baby unless your own life is physically at stake.
2007-02-07 17:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane dear ? You want to get an abortion ? In Malta is illegal to have an abortion. Malta is roman catholic.
2007-02-10 07:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice of abortion aside.....a home induced abortion is very dangerous! Needless to say, if it doesn't kill your baby, it could badly disfigure them or hurt them and that will solve nothing and make things worse.
This is not your boyfriends choice, and I personally wouldn't have an abortion, but if that's what you need to do, please do it under the direction of a doctor!!!
2007-02-07 17:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mama Ro 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious. Maybe your boyfriend will take the responsibility and raise this child with out you. If you are pregnant, it's a baby - not an egg. You wont' have your period you'll have a miscarriage.
2007-02-07 17:24:16 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋