9 mths later she gave birth. her partner knows that the baby is most likely mine.
she is refusing to allow a paternity test to see if i am the father.
where do i stand and what should be my next move.
thanks neil
2007-02-07 09:13:06 · 18 answers · asked by NEIL M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to a lawyer, you can demand to have a DNA test done. I do suggest you ask yourself one important question. For who's benefit are you doing this? Are you going to be a loving supporting father to the child knowing you will not be with its mother. Are you going to be willing to pay child support, take on visitation rights and such or are you infatuated with the mother. I'm not trying to be mean, just make sure you priorities are in the right order. If you have nothing to offer but trouble step back, otherwise again my suggestion is contact a lawyer.
2007-02-07 09:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unquestionably, id positioned it aside and attend the marriage. U 2 are married, what might desire to in all probability take place? there will be different travellers on the marriage, why do u sense like ull finally end up socializing with those women individuals? Your husband even stated it, that the marriage might desire to be approximately his sister, then why are u 2 so worried related to the way you 2 are going to sense on the marriage? it is not approximately u 2. It a family individuals wedding ceremony. positioned your guy or woman emotions aside, it only at some point. Ure going to permit a gaggle of stupid women individuals get interior the way of u being there for a family individuals social gathering? who's being egocentric right here? Drama won't take place till u invite drama. I unquestionably don't be attentive to what you think of those women individuals will do on the marriage which would be that dramatic. only stick to the family individuals, drink, dance, stay remote from them and luxuriate interior the night. U 2 are making this a much bigger deal than it is.
2016-09-28 13:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by linnon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fist thing I would do is go and see a solicitor and find out my rights. I would also want a paternity test done . Ive heard you can get these done through the internet.
2007-02-07 09:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by face ache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to ask yourself do you really want to be in this child’s life. Are you financially ready to give child support? Are you even ready to be a part time dad? Do you have a room for him if you are the father? There is a lot at steak here think about it very carefully.
2007-02-07 09:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to court!
It's not only your right but, her present partner and the baby.
Try to reason with her. Tell her that when the baby grows up and is a teenager she will ask why she doesn't look like her daddy, how is she going to explain that! We need to be honest with our kids or they will resent us!
Good luck to you!
2007-02-07 09:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a solicitor.......if the child is yours you have a right to know and see your child.....sounds like she doesnt want to know so she can keep her family together. Why on earth would you even have a fling with a married woman! You silly bugger! I guess this teaches u a lesson then! Good luck because you need to know if you have a child.....and the child will need to know one day too...
good luck mate
2007-02-07 09:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jassie's mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on where you are, you should be able to demand a paternity test whether she wants to or not. i would see what i could do about forcing her to do this. otherwise she might try to nail you for child support and the child may not even be yours. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-07 09:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a court order for the blood test,get a lawyer and I hope you have alot of money them blood test for paternity cost money
2007-02-07 09:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to be the father? if not leave it alone. Let her live with her husband and the baby,
If you truly want to be a part of the babies life and be daddy, then get a lawyer
2007-02-07 09:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by joy_full_mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her you have the right to now if you are the father of the baby or not if she still refuses get a lawyer.
2007-02-07 09:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋