MY ex and I broke up 6 months ago. For the most part we had a great relationship. But he was depressed even suicidal. I told him that he needed help,but only wanted to talk to me. Then he told me why, he got a one night stand pregnant and didnt want anything to do with her. Then, I helped him come to terms with it only for him to leave me to be with this girl. But what was worst he turned on me and talked about me negativly to this girl. I was shocked. Yesterday, I got an email from this girl saying they were friends and that he was seeing another girl behind her back, then calling her telling her he loved her. Alot of his lies came up in all this. He cant dare confront me because I truly feel he is ashamed and a liar. But what kind of a guy does this? He told me he wasnt that type of guy to sleep around and it made him feel gross after. But even after all the suicide talk, getting a one night stand pregnant he still is sleeping around. What is wrong with him really? Bipolar, BPD?
2007-02-07 09:04:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is wrong with him is he has no morals and lacks integrity. Don't feel sorry for him.
2007-02-07 09:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's full of it. Nothing's wrong with "sleeping around" if this is what he wants to do - but he's too much of a coward to ADMIT that this is what he wants to do. He wants to project this "holier than thou" image whereas in reality he's no better or worse than anyone else, and has the same normal drives and desires as any guy does. He just has to come to terms with his own drive to experience life and relationships, and not rush into one serious relationship after another, is all. Hopefully, you can just stay out of it - he is not your problem anymore, thank your lucky stars that this spineless flakey coward is out of your life.
2007-02-07 09:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man sounds a lot like my brother in-law is his name Tony. What can I say dear but that he is a low life scrum. The better for you that he is gone, and thank God, you did not have children from this kind of man. He is a liar and will always be a liar move on, and stay as far away from him as you can.
2007-02-07 09:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with that, he's just trifling and self-centered. Don't even worry about that loser.Plus a man will say anything to get with a woman, they will tell you everything opposite about them and leave all the positve traits about them
2007-02-07 09:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just selfish pigs. Seriously. He has no worries right now. He's doing his thing, but let me tell you, everything we do catches up to us, and he'll get his eventually. It's pointless trying to figure these people out, because nothing they do is rational. They are heartless, cold, tiny little people who can think no further than their own noses.
2007-02-07 09:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. Who cares what makes axxholes like this tick. Just be glad you are done with him. Move on already.
2007-02-07 09:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a nasty mess. Please, if you do one thing, get some perspective and get your focus on yourself back.
Who cares how he could?
If he refuses help, he can't be helped, and you're wasting your time.
Been there, got through that.
2007-02-07 09:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has mental problems of some kind. If you are smart, you'll stay away from him.
2007-02-07 09:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP! You are not his therapist or his girlfriend.
This is their problem and you should stay out of it.
Good luck
2007-02-07 09:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I agree with "meathorse"
2007-02-07 10:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋