Girls in my grade are terrible to me. Im in the tenth grade. I generally keep to my self and talk to my friends. Im pretty nice to people but some girls are out to get me. Im not really popular in my grade or that pretty. I'm 5'4 120 pounds and get harassed because of my breast size. Im a 38 D. People say they are fake and say I have eating disorders. This one girl Kasie is truly a b*tch. She calls me ugly ( shes not a looker herself), trys to put me down, makes up lies about me, insults other people, brags about how people want to sleep with her ( shes kinda easy), and will brag about material things. Im so sick of her. she trys and kicks me in the face during gym. I really hate her and she talks to me about her life problems and thinks she can be a ***** to me. Shes trying to steal my friends boyfriend. This other girl Kym hates me for no reason and will wave and say hi to me. I waved back to be polite, and she started cracking up. I hate them. What should I do?
2007-02-07 08:53:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Wathc the movie Mean Girls, I guess.
Know that this is just the way it is when too many females are put in the same space.
It's hormonal.
Oh, and guess what?
I'd bet anything that you possess much more self-control, awareness, and ability to think before getting yourself into trouble.
Hallelujah!
Sorry about your biological carriage. This is still true as women get older, but we handle it differently.
Hey, remember that they're jealous.
Nobody ever teases me about my A cup, you know?
That actually would be mean. Most mean girls know even better than THAT.
2007-02-07 08:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jackie,
Don't worry about those girls. They're just "haters". Even though you say that you're not that pretty, these girls are obviously jealous of you for some reason. Maybe it's your independence or possibly your breast size. Whatever the reason, they envy you. Ignore them. You already have friends, right? Keep your distance from these "mean girls" whenever possible. At the same time, this should never rise to a "physical" situation. You said that the one girl was kicking you in gym class?? Oh, no, that's completely unacceptable. One part of me wants to tell you to "beat her down", but the more rational (and peace-loving) side of me is telling you to bring any type of physical abuse to someone's attention. Teacher? Counselor? Parents? Find someone to talk to so that you can put an end to this madness. Do you believe in karma? If so, then you know that they're going to "get theirs". So, you hold your head up high and continue to be a strong young lady. Best wishes to you, Jackie.
Peace
2007-02-07 20:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sad for you.
Hang in there.
BTW Eating disorders cause small not large breasts. 120 pounds is like normal weight.
What to do? Become a tom boy and ditch all these girls, ... Start hanging out with the guys.
Don't worry about girls trying to steal your boy friend. If he's worth keeping he'll stay loyal to you. If not, at your age, you'll find a guy that does.
As for your looks, well, I'm one of the few guys not particularly "into" huge breasts, but its quite possible some people are jealous. In any case, you are who you are, not your breast size.
2007-02-07 17:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't sit and listen to this girl's personal problems if she isn't a friend to you. Your time is precious and you don't need to waste it on her. Second, focus on yourself. Find people who truly make you feel good and ignore the rest. Take up a sport or activity that you enjoy and can grow in so that you'll start feeling good about yourself. Those other girls sound like they are just jealous of you.
2007-02-07 17:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by akivi73 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋