Divorce, live with it? What?
2007-02-07 08:35:46 · 5 answers · asked by Dr. Barker 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That happened to me as well. After 10 years of marriage and two kids, she switched teams almost overnight.
Chances she's in the mist of depression as well.
Sorry to say this, but she's going on a long journey that doesn't include you. Soon you will be the enemy if you're not already.
It's time to start collecting information to use against her to protect your interests and get a good lawyer to start divorce proceedings. Just don't tell her yet. Wait until you have enough information, act fast and let her know that the information you have will be public information if she doesn't fold and settle out of court.
2007-02-07 09:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by radical4capitalism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best I would suggest to you is really think about it. Think about how it makes you feel and whether you can deal with it. You should ask her what she intends to do with her life and your relationship now that she is coming to terms with what she is. You need to start thinking about the idea that the relationship will transform into more of just a friendship. Try to understand that she isn't doing this to hurt you or cause you pain. This is just a part of her life that she didn't choose and didn't want to force you into.
If you have children you should consider the fact that she's still their mom and that there is nothing wrong with what she is, no matter what it changes between the two of you.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-07 16:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Life is too short to be living a lie. If you can be supportive hang with. If not move on. Life is too short. I'm in a similar situation and just haven't told my man yet. It's been miserable because he thinks it's him and he has no idea how wonderful he is. I'm just really into girls all of a sudden and need to be honest like your wife has been. Best of luck whatever you decide.
2007-02-07 16:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by confused 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be, just be a friend to her at least...
2007-02-07 16:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by M.L.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if u can watch!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 16:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by surreal 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋