relationship wise that is
2007-02-07 08:15:14 · 18 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Girls aren't complicated, you're simple.
2007-02-07 08:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's complicated. You just don't see your own complicated parts cause you're on the inside looking out.
I do agree though... that relationships themselves are complicated. I think part of the reason is that we have way too many choices now. A hundred years ago you were limited to who you knew if your town or neighborhood. People married someone that they believed to be a good match, then stuck with it. Now... we look for the perfect match because we're told by TV and movies that it exists. So we scour the internet, break realtionships that aren't exactly perfect, seek divorce when things get tough, or just plain cheat.
We're spoiled my friend... and we're paying the price because we can't get it out of our heads that relationships are not a perfect thing. They need to be worked like anything else.. and MADE beautiful by our hands.
2007-02-07 16:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Boberella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of relationships. Why are girls so complicated? The only advice you need is to remember that no one has ever been able to figure that out. So don't try. It will only complicate your life.
Be strong, listen like you're interested and make sure she knows where you stand on all subjects. After that, good luck.
You'll survive, we all do. We're men after all.
2007-02-07 16:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by vmmhg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have it backwards, Hawaii. Girls will at least talk about what is on their mind; what is bothering them. Guys, on the other hand, shut down and say nothing. Some of them leave the scene as soon as the girl says anything. This is why so many couples are in trouble--lack of communication--and 90+ per cent of the time, it is the guy who is not communicating.
2007-02-07 16:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the girl. If your gf is the "be around me" or "pay attention to me" Then it can be hard or "complicated". Just find a girl that's right for you.
2007-02-07 16:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by CuteKnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls aren't complicated. They just want to be loved.
All she needs is for you to say that you love her and that she is beautiful.
Enough said?
2007-02-07 16:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are both equally complicated, just in different ways.
2007-02-07 16:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anashuya 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls arent complicated, they just dont make any sense. its not that they are not logical its that the logic they use is in no way similar to the logic men use. the best way to undertand this is to just accept it, and do your best to try and figure out what the hell they want so you can get what you want.
2007-02-07 18:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they have to deal with boys.
:)
we're all complicated babe. as people, not just as men and women. i mean, how many friends have you managed to keep for the duration? even simpler relationships with friends are tough to keep up. since we each think that what we think makes sense, and is obvious, there is much room for misunderstanding and mixed messages.
2007-02-07 16:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, love, respect. That's all a girl wants.
Unless she likes to play mind games. Stay away from those. Find a girl who wants these things, and GIVES these things also. That's a good woman.
2007-02-07 16:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsey H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋