WELL I AM A 24 YR OLD FEMALE WHO HAS A PROBLEM WITH HAVING FEMALE FRIENDS. I HAVE TRUST ISSUES WITH THEM, IT SEEMS LIKE I CAN ONLY GET ALONG WITH MALES(i grew up with 2 brothers and all their friends) THE LAST FEMALE FRIEND I HAD DID ME WRONG. HOW DO I LOOK PAST WHAT I HAVE ALREADY BEEN THROUGH AND MAKE AT LEAST ONE GOOD FEMALE FRIEND. PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE THIS IS REALLY GETTING TO ME THAT WHEN I HAVE A PROBLEM AND WANT TO CALL SOMEONE I CANT. I AM A VERY LOVING PERSON BUT I AM TRIED OF GETTING HURT BY FRIENDS.
2007-02-07 08:03:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you can't trust them, then how in the world are you going to be friends with them? You have to get over those issues. I have had a lot of women who have done some pretty bad things to me. Every office I work in, there is at least one woman out to get me fired...go figure. But, I do know that if I am a nice person and a woman, there have got to be others out there like me. It's hard to meet women just as friends though. My best friend is my co-worker. But, since I only have one girlfriend, I guess I'm not much help. One girlfriend is enough for me.
2007-02-07 08:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not only one gender that can betray you. I would suggest finding girl friends that are stable and "Drama Free". And just as you should with anyone take time and get to know the person before you trust them.
2007-02-07 08:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by qualityhomeservice1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to learn to trust other females if you want to be friends. Find those who have similiar interests as you. Give it a shot.
2007-02-07 08:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have never been hurt by a man? Strange.....All women are not alike, just as all men are not alike. You must give someone a chance and get to know them before judging them.
2007-02-07 08:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep trying, I know that not all people out there are honest. But there are people out there, I guarantee it! keep trying and I hope you find wht you are looking for.
2007-02-07 08:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by bored_rena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to women and have truthful conversations
2007-02-07 08:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋