There is a girl that I like in my high school. For the past month we got to know each other a little better. I want to give her something for Valentine's Day. I asked her do she like flowers or stuff animals and she doesn't. She doesn't like receiving gifts, because she feels kind of guilty. Also, she doesn't know what kind gifts she want. She slightly likes roses and some flowers, but I want to give her something she would really like. What should I give her?
2007-02-07 07:58:08 · 21 answers · asked by Koro 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
roses and a nice 'me to u' soft toy!! nice i like it even i am an adault!!
2007-02-13 00:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, even if she feels embarrassed at first, beleive me she will enjoy a gift from you.All people enjoy gifts even if they don't appear so at first. These people have trouble expressing their emotions, that's why they act like that. Second, the best gift to give someone is something that is from the heart. That doesn't nesassaraly mean it has to be an " I Love You" gift but the best presents you can give someone is a gift that required effort to get or find. Example: last year my fiance said she didn't want anything special because the mony could be used for more important things. So I didn't spend alot of money on the gift but I put alot of thought into it. I took a road trip to New York City about a 7 hour drive (while i was "working") to get her a little stuffed animal from toysrus there. It cost me a whoppng 12 dollars for it, but the idea that i went through all that trouble for her gift was the thing that made it special. She's never been to new york city so i brought something from it to her.
2007-02-07 16:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by john g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like her for more than a friend?If so a blank card with this poem or a card with a poem that will show how you feel.An a single Rose!
I Wish You Were My Valentine
I wish you were my Valentine
Though I may not be yours,
And I may, in my ignorance,
Be speaking to closed doors.
I have no inkling of your heart,
No hint what you might say;
But when I think of you the sun
Will just not go away.
There is in you a loveliness
That makes my darkness shine,
And so I'll wait, if wait I must,
To be your Valentine.
Copyright by
Nicholas Gordon
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2007-02-13 10:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by tinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want her to feel uncomfortable, since you did say she doesn't like receiving gifts, and I understand that. I'm the same way. I love getting cards though.
You could always include an offer to go the movies in the card as well, or to go out for a bite to eat when the time is right for her.
Good luck.
You're very thoughtful.
2007-02-07 16:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by BIZ Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too extravagant. Give her a couple of flowers if you want, but give her something she can remember over the years. Get a nice card and write a nice note for her. It's doesn't have to be mushy, but it will be something she can alway have and read it for years to come. And spending time with someone is always appreciated; take her out to eat or even better, fix her a meal.
I wouldn't do the box of chocolates or a stuffed animal; that's so cheesy!!!
2007-02-07 16:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by wenda w 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep it simple. Maybe just get her a card and some chocolate or other candy she likes. Or take her to the movies, let it be her pick, even if it's a chick flick, well, you get to spent time here. And than have a drink together, just stick to that.
2007-02-07 16:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her out somewhere, to her favorite restaurant, or just for pizza, depending on your budget.
Send her a small bouquet of roses, or just take them to her, but don't do this publicly, take them by the house.
Get your Mom to invite her to supper, present the roses there.
2007-02-13 09:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by riversconfluence 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out, all on you, maybe a Rose or two..but remember its the little things that mean the most, unless their gold diggers then u got an issue..lol..
2007-02-07 16:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mystery Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-15 13:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't feel guilty is someone nice gave me a single red rose.
2007-02-14 17:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by dtwladyhawk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A spa day treatment, what girl, or guy for that matter would say no?
On the less expencive side, find out what kind of music she likes and make a cd for her. It's personal without going overboard.
2007-02-07 16:06:27 · answer #11 · answered by simply_bohemian 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋