ok the thing is that i'm bi and my boyfriend knows that already but me and one of his friend (whos bi) have been talking and the things he dont like doing she does...me and her are really close now and I don't know how to tell me that i'm feeling her and want to be with her and not him...she said she would tell him for me but that wouldn't be right to do that to him...so my question is how do i tell him? HELP!?!?!???!?!?
2007-02-07 07:57:03 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't let these fools tell you that a threesome will fix your problem. I love group sex, but the issue you're having isn't about group sex. You need to live your life to make yourself happy and avoid hurting others, not to fulfill "every man's fantasy".
If you feel like you should be with this girl instead of your boyfriend, then that is what you should do. Tell him you are breaking up with him. You may not even want to involve her. You are right that you should tell him youself. Having someone else break up with your significant other for you is childish and cowardly.
2007-02-07 08:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Salek 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him straight out,don't beat around the bush and be honest. That's all you can do, unless you find telling white lies fesible,and you don't sound like that type of girl.Be strong and keep in mind that this is what you want and that's what counts the most right here and right now.Good Luck
2007-02-07 16:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think its less of a rejection for him because he might think that its not just him you dont like but all guys (for the moment). so just out right tell him make sure you are very clear you were not cheating on him. just be like i didnt want to lie to you but i think i might like her. just be eally apologetic and talk to him about it. hopefully he will understand. i think being bi is soo confusing, i just recently discovered this, so i have thought about the situation you are in, and thats what i would do. being dumped sucks ive been there too. goodluck
2007-02-07 16:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by EVIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b honest with him tell him everything u have just told us im sure he'll understand ask if u can still b friends tho if its not 2 much 4 him i hope all goes well.
2007-02-07 16:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you break up with him. your question amounts to, "How do I tell my boyfriend I'm going to cheat on him." The genders of the people are irrelevant; it's cheating. deal with it as you would if you wanted to hook up with a guy; it's the same.
2007-02-07 16:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by scruffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try this: "You know those things you won't do to me that I really like? Well, she does. Get out."
2007-02-07 16:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 some ... that way everybody is happy
2007-02-07 16:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Cody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth,,maybe he will want to watch!!!
2007-02-07 16:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by bannantynegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding, thats every mans dream (if you both look decent!)
2007-02-07 16:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by poo hat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋