I was seeing this girl, and yea we met through bad terms(ex's friend) ...so yeah, We were seeing eachother then she cut us to just being friends, and then now she wont even talk to me. It kind of sucks because I still think about her and can't get her off of my mind, and I was only goin out with my ex for a week(and it was a year and a half ago so yeah) I want to get sumthin for this girl(not my ex) for valentines day, but have no clue, I really can't stop thinkin about her, and I want to talk to her, and I want to hear her voice, and even see her. I think she feels the same way, cause we ended roughly but I know she cared about me. So what should I get her any idea's? and maybe what should I say? that might help too..We were close, to tell u the truth our first date was to rockafeller center(her 1st time there), Made a wish at the pond together, went to st. Pats church, signed the book together, then went to central park and this was in december, so that was kind of romantic. thanks
2007-02-07 07:47:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
You say you made a wish, why not just send a card and a rose and just put in the card "My wish didnt come true at "whatever pond" as you arent here with me"
Then if you get nothing, its time to let go.
2007-02-07 07:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a chance. Either way something good will come out of it. 1. She will want to see and talk to you again or 2. It will be a closure for you to move on. Try sending a card and see if you get a reply, if not then move on. I wish you the best! Good Luck!
2007-02-07 15:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think U should get her a rose or two and valentines, the penny idea was good too, but make sure u include how u really feel, you know what they say, If you let it go and it comes back it will be yours forever...I mean its all about the little things, hopefully she will realize this..
2007-02-07 16:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mystery Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would really suggest you order her arranged flowers like ROSES, perhaps, and mixed with Stargazers. The Stargazers are very good and just as expensive as roses. On the message, say something like, "I would really love to see you again. I miss you very much." Make it simple and not too mushy. Have the floral arrangements delivered to her work. If you don't know her work address, research it! It'll impress her that you didn't ask her for it.
I'm sure if she feels the same way, you will definitely get a response from her.
Please DO let me know the status if you follow my suggestions. I would appreciate it, and thanks for asking. Good Luck! - MA
2007-02-07 17:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you had a nice time together. But, she seems to have made the attempt to end the relationship...and has stopped communication with you. Unless it is to ask, would you like to get together again...I wouldn't invest too much more of your time in the situation. Honestly, you may need to just move on and find someone that appreciates you for you. Good luck!
2007-02-07 15:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Make her something. Something individualized, that sends a message saying you're sorry. Maybe make her a card, and glue a penny to it "remember our first wish together..." etc. Send it with a red rose and her favorite chocolate, or something that means a lot to her. You can figure something out. Tell her how you feel.
2007-02-07 15:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to meet you at Central Park for a picnic and give her a single red rose.
2007-02-07 15:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by lonestar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe get a card, and put in a coin and write something on the card saying something like: My wish is to be in your life again (reference to the wish in the pond).
Or something sappy like that....
Good luck, pal!
2007-02-07 15:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by allthree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwwww that really is a really romantic date! give her a quarter (to make a wish in that pond again) wrapped in like 2295769201388 layers of newspaper. so when she finally gets to the very last layer she wouldnt be expecting the quarter. and then say that your first date was really nice, and want to do it again. then homemade dinner! yaaaay
2007-02-07 15:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by name 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude. Either she's dumped you, or she's scared of something. It's a woman, so good luck figuring out what the issue is, if it's an issue, not you being dumped.
2007-02-07 17:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋