do i still love Lj.?

Question

hi i have been single for 3 yrs and i recntly got back in touch with my ex fiance through myspace. ( damn that myspace) and now i find my self thinking about him and old memories and wanting to see him and miss being with someone. do i want him back, i thought i was through of him,y did he have to write me a note!!

Answer 1

And he is an ex for what reason? Go ahead, dredge up old memories. Dredge up the ones that made him your ex too.

MOVE ON and don't look back.

Answer 2

I would say be friends out of it. In those three years have you and him changed enough to make the relationship work now? Only you know that answer. Although, if my ex fiance came back, I know we wouldn't be together. We had given our relationship every last drop before finally calling it quits. You might just be considering him just because you're single and feeling a little lonely. I feel that way right now too, but I wouldn't go back with my ex fiance that I loved too. There's a reason you aren't together now and you should think about it.

Answer 3

"miss being with someone"

There's the key to this whole emotional thing you're on. It isn't really him you want. That's an illusion you've created. You know him, and, I suppose, there were some good times, but those days are over. You never moved on. Look to the future for someone new and not to the past.

It isn't him you want back. You just want someone and he's around.

Answer 4

Step back and think of why you broke up in the first place. If he was annoying and pushy, he still is. You just forgot. Move on or tell him you want to get serious.

Answer 5

Well if the feelings there go for it you know what you want none of us can feel what you feel so if the feelings right do it.Good luck