Would you get offended if a guy came up to you and said..."I would like to hit that"?...why or why not?
I'm asking because my friend say no but I find it to be degrading and demeaning to all of us women.
2007-02-07 07:40:15 · 16 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, I would be offended.
A guy once pulled that sh!t on a girl I was with. I twisted his arm and pinned him to the bar and made him promise to be nice. (I'm a professional dominatrix. People who mess with me quickly learn they've made a mistake).
2007-02-07 07:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Salek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this. If this same guy came up to you and said 'I would like to take you home and have wonderful, exciting sex with you all night long' would you still be degraded and demeaned? If so, why? If not, why feel degraded because he said he would 'like to hit that'? It's just semantics, but it means the same thing either way.
2007-02-07 15:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by choko_canyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find degrading or demeaning won't change the way what stupid guys think or act.and it is because some women love this type of men and don't give the respect that we deserve that they act like this.
2007-02-07 15:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was joking and being funny, no, not offended. If he was serious, I wouldn't be offended, really, but I would be utterly turned-off, and wouldn't give him the time of day . . .
That's when you need to have a good comeback, like "Awesome, because I'd really like to hit you, too." Then do it, right across the face.
Serves 'em right. What ever happened to common decency and cute pick-up lines that didn't cut straight to the sex?
2007-02-07 18:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is degrading. But I wouldn't be offended because it means I'm hot.
2007-02-07 17:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is degrading and disgusting, but I wouldn't get offended. Just feel bad for those morons. I don't take their stupidity personally.
2007-02-07 15:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you on that. Most men don't have any idea how their testosterone sounds. I find that most men speak to women in a degrading way anytime they try to talk about sex. Are they that unsure of themselves?
2007-02-07 15:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Pattie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's always impolite (at best) to make a sexual advance or comment out of nowhere. So yeah, I'd be offended. I usually just walk away without a word.
2007-02-07 15:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of come on is that?!?
I'd like to hit that. it just sounds stupid.
hit what? certainly not my personality, life experiences, knowledge, wisdom, humor, interests, abilities or intelligence.
that phrase implies that a woman is just her pu$$y. which is insulting. it also is not an invitation to conversation - just a statement about a woman's looks. it works to exert a man's power of whoever this woman standing in front of him is. it strips away her personality and degrades her to be his to hit as he pleases.
it's trashy, and you should tell your friends that they should have higher standards for the guys that grab their attention.
good for you for wanting way more than that crap.
2007-02-07 15:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's degrading, but I wouldn't necessarily be offended. I would just chalk it up to him being an IDIOT!!!
2007-02-07 15:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by Motivated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋