there is this guy named todd. he goes to a diff. school than me and my friends. i liked him first and never told anyone, then i decidede to mention him to my closeest friends, and now my friend Molly likes him too, and doesnt even care that i liked him wayy before her. She always does this with the guys her friends like!!! its soo annoying, i told her what i felt abou thte situation, but she doesnt give a rats ***. PLEASE HELP ME!! WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HER?!?!
2007-02-07 07:32:26 · 9 answers · asked by deleted 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay.... first of all, if you knew that Molly always does this, why in the world did you open your mouth about who you liked? She's not trustworthy and she doesn't care if you stay friends or not, so why would you call her your BFF? She's a skanky chick who needs to steal her guys from her friends. And trust me, as she gets older, she'll just get worse and worse. Cut her loose and move on with girlfriends you can trust.
Secondly, if you are into someone, TELL HIM, not your girlfriends! If it's just a crush, fine. But if you really want to be something to this boy, get out there and get to work on it!
Good luck.
2007-02-15 05:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I a pretty sure there is a statute of limitations on how long ago you first liked someone and your "right" to a relationship with them...
Sounds like it might've ran out when your friend stepped into the picture....Good news is, from what you say she will move on pretty quick so if you are really interested and its not just a fad, then you can move in after. That is, if you haven't found a new "flava of the month!"
Sloppy seconds is better than no seconds at al!!!! :)
2007-02-13 19:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by ITSakunspiracy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he really likes you back. I would move on.
Rule #1: Its never worth it to lose a friend over a guy.
Rule#2: Their are plenty of fish in the sea.
Rule#3: Don't limit your options.
You would be the better person if you moved on. And I'm willing to bet in four years from now the two of you will laugh about it and this guy will be long gone.
2007-02-15 12:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do! That is what eventually happens if the guy is good looking or you talk to her about him a lot! If you say something to her she will not be your friend or get really mad!
2007-02-14 18:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jacqueline K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you have a new bf, describe him as best ever and see if she drops the first one and goes for the second one, if she does, I would not consider her a friend. she just wants what you want. kinda of flattering.
2007-02-15 04:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why shoudl she care? i mean this is nuts. If you all dont' do something oh well shes not a friend i guess maybe you have gotten that. if not start learning what a friend isand that is not one.
2007-02-14 00:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything because it sounds like that is what she is looking for. but it is fair for her to like him as long as she doesn't make any moves!!!! i know some one who likes to steal bf's away
2007-02-07 16:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Candace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur todd what he wants..... u can't break ur frndshp 4 a guy ya...
2007-02-15 12:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by sweet bhullar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have no idea.....DEAL
2007-02-13 15:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ave 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋