My older sister is 20 and I am 18 but she is such a cow, because
she winds me up then starts having a go at me because of something or another. She blames me because I have to make our horses feeds up AND clean the shed at the same time, at high speed of course, because she has such a busy life style. Also If something goes wrong, SHE's not to blame. She also borrows money but it takes her ages to pay anyone back. And If I ask her for money, She says she hasn't got anything or she blackmails you with it.
When I try to stand up to her, I have been threatened and once, hit in the face. I have younger sisters too and if she picks on one of us, the two youngest gang up with her.
I know I might sound over the top but that is what she is like.
2007-02-07 07:12:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeh, I quite like the manure in the bed idea
cos you have my sympathy.
I am also suffering cos of someone close who is as spoilt as that. She expects everyone to be her servant, give her everything whilst she gives zilch back, she twists every situation to suit herself, lying without compunction, then she takes the moral high ground, blames me for everything, & seethes with jealousy if anyone even blinks in my direction.
Hey - your sister is a lazy, work shy bully who needs taking down a notch or 2 so she knows what the real world is like.
Nothing illegal though cos you don't want to get in trouble cos of her.
I'm definately not the aggressive type & nor are you by the sound of things - you sound like an honest, hard working decent guy...
Hell. I don't really know how to change ignorant, nasty, selfish egoists...
I feel a bit lost, like you - sort of taken over - I guess possessed? in some awfully wierd way?
H'mmm. What would make her more human & humane?
If you were God, what would you do to affect that?
I think I would trust that lesson is coming - soon.
& I'd warn her about that.
Then rest easy. Trust in God- that God will sort her out.
Be there for her when she's in tears, realising her mistakes? Cos that's what folks do, when they're family.
So long as you stay with the truth, you wont come undone.
Just don't let her push your buttons to get you mad in the meantime. If she's rude to you, just smile at her sweetly.
If she tries to hit you again, slap her face (not too hard) just a very quick, sharp tap on her cheek so she knows you wont take that crap?
Or is she likely to try & knock you out?
The person I'm trying to cope with would sink her stilleto in my head if I tried to do that...
2007-02-07 09:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am the second in line of 4 sisters. The eldest has always been the ***** but don't worry yourself because if you are anything like us 4, you will all end up as best friends! After I hit 22, my 2 years older sister became my best pal, and after both of us had passed 25 we included the younger ones in our lives. All of us are between 40 and 50 now and so close that we don't need anyone else! Good luck - she says with a tear!
2007-02-07 07:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by freddy the newf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She seems possesed by the Devil. I feel really sorry for you, you need to get away from her fast before she goes to the limit, she might actually pick up a knife and stab you.. that won't be neither a pretty site, or funny. Send her to a mental house quicker than lightening, you need to. Pretend you lot are going to get some drugs and just take her to a Mad House. There she can be retained and sort out her problems and you'll be safe aswell.
2016-05-24 03:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laxitives in her coffee? No, go mad and threaten the lot of them or else! My sister is younger than me and has our mother wrapped around her finger. One day we has a blazing row and my mother was crying and got really upset so i said i wouldn't argue with my sister again. I would've caused serious damage as she thinks i wouldn't stand up to her. I haven't spoken to her in about 8 years even though we live in the same house. It's like walking on eggshells as everyone's afraid of her but if she ever utters another word to me she's DEAD!
2007-02-07 12:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Display some post cards locally giving her name, telephone number and the offer of personal services at reasonable prices. If the embarrassment is unsuccessful, charge your sister a management fee from her extra income.
2007-02-07 07:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Clive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My older sister is basically what they call "the Perfect Child"; she has great grades, she's well-mannered, and blah de blah blah. But whatever, I've learned to get used to it. I can't really change how she acts (much like your sister), so all I do is just ignore it. It might now be the best advice, but it's better than calling them evil.
2007-02-07 07:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look I'm an older sis just kind of listen to her and then if she still dose that just tell her t f*** of
2007-02-07 07:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ground glass in her cereal.
2007-02-07 07:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Put the horse sh1t in her bed.
2007-02-07 07:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
nair in her shampoo...just kidding
2007-02-07 07:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Small Town Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋