ok....this is my problem i have a female friend that ive known for about 8 years. and yesterday i cut off al communication with her becuz my girlfriend does not approve of her becuz of previous problems. the reason y me and my girlfriend were fighting this past week was becuz since my gf doesnt get along with my friend i used to go home from my gf house and call my other friend and talk 2 her over the fone. now i am NOT interested in her and she isnt either, she has a bf and a child. do u think it was wrong for me 2 cut off all relations wit my friend?....i love my girlfriend and she has a legit excuse for not likeing the other gurl so to prevent further problems with my gf i discontinued mt relationship with my friend.....what do you think honestly?!
2007-02-07 06:55:23 · 3 answers · asked by OneProudRican716 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, jealousy and fear are only insecurities in yourself. You need to make sure you tell your gf how you feel, tell her you love her, but you have been friends for a long time with the other girl. Make it clear that you don't have any romantic notions fot the other girl, and be patient. That's important, lol. Just because your gf doesn't like one of your friends, doesn't mean you can't be friends with her. I do think it's wrong for your gf to make you choose like that.
When you love someone, you want them to be happy. If your girlfriend is knwoingly making you unhappy, and making you choose like this, you need to rethink that relationship. Sometimes the hardest thing and the right are the same. :D
2007-02-07 07:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had to deal with similar issues, but friends can last longer than your girlfriend. If your girlfriend dumped you or you her in the next few months you'll move on to other people, but it will be a lot harder to repair your friendship with your good friend, especially someone you've known that long. If you're girlfriend gets that bent out of shape and jealous over you having other female friends than that's something she should learn to overcome if she wants to stay with you. Oh and don't let her make your decisions, that's all bad.
2007-02-07 15:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i think you should tell your girlfriend that she is a good frined and what happened in the past happend in the past so shes going to have to deal with it.
2007-02-07 15:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Janelle S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋