What if you knew that he loved you too, but we both couldn't admit it to eachother...How do I cope with that, I miss him more than anything I havnt been happy in 3 months:(
2007-02-07 06:51:29 · 16 answers · asked by CheaKat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's more complicated than some of the answer I have already been answered. He is with the woman who he has a child with. He was with her before me and we Dated 8 months. He told me He loves me but I dont know what to do, reason we broke up is because of his little girl who was born in Jan. he thinks she will take his child away from him, but I dont think she can! I called that a LAME excuse. HELP!
2007-02-07 07:05:48 · update #1
Give it up... It's not a fairly tale world. Move on. Live life.
2007-02-07 06:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you both have to want the same thing.
Obviously you haven't met the right person that would be able to make you forget about him
If he feels the same way and assuming the breakup was not a result of cheating then you should sit down and talk and perhaps get together again.
Depends on what the breakup was over.
2007-02-07 07:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same thing happen to me and a ex but by the time i decided to say something he was getting engage now he is married and so am i . and it took time but i realize that if we was so good together we wouldn't have broke up from the start. since i've been married we talked and he met my husband and we are both happy knowing each other is happy so we love each other enough to let go but he is still like my best friend and i am happy that way. if its meant for you then it'll happen don't rush or push it.remember he has someone. its not worthy making her feel bad just so you can feel better
2007-02-07 07:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by sxyrd45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, think of why you guys broke up in the first place. Was it something serious? Or, was it something that could have been mended? If it is something serious, think about if it would be worth being with him. If it was something that was not so serious, think about why you guys broke up rather than mending it. Would it be worth mending to be back with him? Then think to yourself, are you truly in love with him or is it lust? Are you in love with him or the idea of being in love? There are a lot of questions that you should ask yourself. If you come to the conclusion that being with him is what you really want (and make sure that it isn't NEED) than talk to him. Between the two of you, decide if it is something that should be revisited.
2007-02-07 07:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.
and then if he doesn't respond - stop talking to him and allow yourself time to move on.
stop waiting for him to be able to tell you. if he really loved you enough he would fight for you! Not date someone else!
you might try being single too - being with Mr. Second best isn't allowing you to really deal with being without your old b/f, because some of what he provides is being supplemented with new b/f. it's important to be happy all alone, and then add significant others into the picture. Not vice cersa.
2007-02-07 06:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'd figure out why you can't admit it too each other. that will be your answer.
i have same problem. my ex loves me and i love her-miss here so much; but, if i'm with her the relationship will be for good-the long term. i'm not ready for that so i see other people.
basically i'm waying the pros and cons of it all. the pros of being with other chicks outweighs my love for her. i know tha sounds weird but its true. i'm just not ready for a long term serious relationship which is how it will be if i get back with her.
this sucks though because i find myself suppressing my feelings towrds her a lot-not pleasant
2007-02-07 06:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why I will not date a girl who has just broken up with her ex,or still has feeling for her ex.
Woman today are just not honest and do not communicate with the people that they are with.
2007-02-07 06:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth...thats all us guys wanna hear. He is waiting for you to make the move. Would you rather be unhappy forever because you never spoke up or would you just wanna break the ice and be happy forver?? Just talk to him.
2007-02-07 06:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should break up with your current boyfriend/girlfriend and stay single and see if you feelings are sincere. A lot of times people always want what they can't have (forbidden fruit)
2007-02-07 06:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,id say first look at whatever it was that caused him to be your EX in the first place and think if you wanna deal with that possibly happening again.2nd make a decision and stick with it.the longer you two play games with these people you are dating,the worse off its gonna be for ya'll.good luck
2007-02-07 06:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by mrs.dynomite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋