I have a black girlfriend. Even though she doesn't act like the white girls I've been with I never said anything about it. She actually tells me how much she hates white people. I mean I'm sitting there and a white person will walk by and she'll say what you looking at you white ***** or she'll call them honkies. I'm thinking about dumping her because she causes so much trouble. She's always getting into fights and so many times I get mixed up in it. Does anyone know what I should do?
2007-02-07 06:27:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
OK, question changed. "Why is my black girlfriend a psycho hose-beast with a racist chip on her shoulder and should I dump her?"
2007-02-07 07:08:08 · update #1
Your girl needs to et out of the '80s
I haven't heard the word "honky" since the "Jeffersons" went off the air
2007-02-07 06:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
They hate them because they either had bad experiences with a few blacks or they just hate people who are different. Sometimes jealousy and social learning are factors too. If your parents do, then you might. If you think you are treated differently, you might. I would say you should dump your girl friend if she gets you in trouble. She is behaving too badly, and she will not likely change. I've never seen a white girl act that way when she is dating a black boy. But why is it that so many people are so insecure about being seen dating the other race? Racist people are often not good dates. Learn from this.
2007-02-07 06:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Susas 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You know what, you might not like this answer, and I am sorry to offend anyone, but I think that everyone is a racist in one form or another. For example, a white person will not have a problem with a black person pisses them off and start cursing black people. And then a white person will say , "I am not a racist but..." and then they will carry on to make a racist comment. Whether they want to admit it or not they are a racist.
Then, black people are pissed off at white people because of the whole "whitey rules" thing. And whitey think that they are better than blacks.
Then, black and whites are irritated with the Latino immigration thing coming down.
Now, this is not all people, its a generalization.
But for these people, its true.
And yeah, when she says that she hates whitey, shes talking about you too. Dump her a**! Find you a girl, blk or white, Latino or Asian that is tolerant of all races just as you are.
2007-02-07 14:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Blacks hate whites via fact whites hate blacks and think of they're greater effective than anyone whites hate blacks for no reason reason they're ignorant and attempt to make excuses of why they hate black human beings white human beings have not got been given no type of reason or excuse to hate blacks blacks have quite some reasons and issues to hate whites
2016-12-17 04:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh.....Dude, this is not a black/white issue. Your girlfriend is a psycho. It wouldn't matter what color she is; she's a drama queen and a whackjob. Your girlfriend is not representative of other black people, or of other black women. She is representative of herself being a psycho. My advice? Dump her and go find someone else. And it doesn't matter what color/race/culture/religion/whatever your next girlfriend is. Just treat her like a GIRL and you two should get along fine.
2007-02-07 06:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
I dont know how old she is but she sounds imature,anyone getting in fights or being "in on them" is stupid just because the person is white or black or any other color. Their are people of every color that blames another race for all their problems. Some are the stereo types in the news and movies or some examples a person would see for themselves everyday in their neighborhood. But no matter, what have these individuals done to your girlfriend to have her call names and fight?? She sound like she dosent want to deal with her own problems her self, its easier to blame someone else.
2007-02-07 06:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
Dump that grudge holder. It seems to me she is paranoid and needs mental help-issues!! And, it appears to me she still thinks that all whites, or most are out to get her. It's a shame she has a mouth to cruse but a brain she doesn't put to use on knowledge or education of others. Yes! dump the diva, she'll just drag you down. And, you are an idiot if you think all whites hate blacks, ..if so, answer me this, then why is it that Ellen Poppaeo from 'Grey's Anatomy' is marrying a producer named Chris Ivery-who is black? , I know it's not because someone coerced them, hunny, it is because they are in love.
2007-02-07 06:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 4⤋
Obviously your gf has some issues of her own that she needs to work out. It is never acceptable to use any sort of racist term, unless of course you are a racist, which obviously she is. Get rid of her and find yourself a "nice girl" who acts like a lady! Good Luck!
2007-02-07 06:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by spen21 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, you should change the title of your question to be:
"Why is my black girlfriend a psycho hose-beast with a racist chip on her shoulder and should I dump her?"
2007-02-07 06:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by non_apologetic_american 4 · 9⤊ 4⤋
Let me get this straight. Your fictional story relates how your black 'girlfriend' seems to dislike white people, but your QUESTION asks why white people hate blacks. You don't seem to have a handle on the whole 'question/answer' process, do you. Tell ya what. Go back and re-think this whole thing, come back when you have half a clue and re-post your question in a sensible manner so that we all don't think you're an idiot. Sound good?
2007-02-07 06:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 18⤊ 3⤋