i had a wierd dream last night, can anyone help?

Question

my bf and i were sleeping and i awoke to find he was trying to force himself on me, i struggled to make him quit, then i rolled on top of him and sat up, holding his arms. when i looked at his face it turned to a devil like mutation of him! i woke up crying in fear. any ideas?

Answer 1

It probably had less to do with sex or abuse than it did with the way you view your relationship. Do you have reason to mistrust this person, or believe that he may emotionally hurt you or turn on you? This could be part of the reason why you are having a dream like this.

Answer 2

Alot of times dreams have to do with inner fears. Does he try to dominate you alot?Does he ever scare you? Does he hit you?Or is he the type where he never has hit you but you feel that if you angered him enough that he would? If he's abusive, or even has the potential to be abusive, you need to leave. If not, I apologize, sometimes we never find out what dreams mean, it could be anything really, maybe even emotions you experienced from watching a movie.

Answer 3

Sounds like you fear men trying to force themselves on you. I think you are personifying in your bf some "monster" of the past who may/may not have done so. If that's true, I encourage you to go get counseling to resolve any past abuse/rape in your life so that it will not hinder your future relationships.

If you have something to fear from this particular boy, I suggest you take this as a warning and leave the relationship now. Many men are chauvinistically selfish and self-serving. If he does it now sexually, you can bet your bottom dollar he will abuse and entrap you in other venues of your life.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

maybe it was one of those weird [edit] Hypnagogic dreams like people who go through sleep paralysis experience http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypnagogia Most common symptoms of this type of dream are:

Vividness
Impending doom
Falling sensation
Fear
Common

Sensing a "presence" (often malevolent)
Pressure/weight on body (especially the chest or back).
A sensation of not being able to breathe
Impending sense of doom/death

Answer 5

sounds like an incubus (demons that has sex with you in your dreams) try saying these scriptures outloud, I am not sure if they will help, I know they stop nightmares, so I am hoping they protect against sexula demons: John 14:27, psalms91:11, Levitus 26:6.

Answer 6

LoL, its kinda funny but don't sweat it...did you watch a scary movie or something before you went to bed?? Usually I dream about things that I watched or talked about throughout the day!

Answer 7

haha i think ur fine u just had some deep REM sleep. If it happens anymore then i would see someone about ti but if its the first time its just one of those freak things that happens.....don't think about it too much thats how u start dreaming about it more often think happy thoughts before u sleep. goodluck!!!

Answer 8

you may be feeling robbed of options and negated as a human being.In order to understand this dream, you may need to think about the areas of your life that causes you great anxiety and fear

Answer 9

You need to leave him. I know that your thinking that I am a quack, but it is true. he verbally attacks you and puts you down a lot does he not? Does he also control you and you fight right back trying to control him? It will only get worst.

Answer 10

if you have had problems with him (bf)it may be your subconscious telling you how you feel with him or it could be that your dream just exposed how he really is......
or its probably that you ate something bad before you went to sleep dreams have lots of meanings.