leave even though she promised after the first mistake she would never let that happen again.
2007-02-07 05:55:10 · 17 answers · asked by sweetladytease 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's time for a counselor or a divorce. Personally, as a female, that's really wrong.
2007-02-07 05:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Yoyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it in this way , yes she was wrong, what i feel was you do love this woman, if not u will not ask this question. Give yourself a mins to think, was it true that u still have a feeling for this woman or u have been with her a while and u pity her? don't rush into your decision, give sometime to yourself and her , take her as your good friend , try to help her as a friend and give each other a time , see does she really change and feel from your heart , will u be able to forgive and never will bring up again when both of u have quarrel in future, even when u guys quarrel on some small little things.? take time to look into it and give her a helping hand now , yes she is wrong but the baby was not wrong , a woman might have to go thro a lot of burden and lost at this moment of time , if u can help with all this , i am sure for u and her will be able to know she really wants to come back to you because she really feel sorry or because she have no way out .And from there u will also be able to see, do u still love her or will u be able to give her a chance again and will u be able to give your love to the baby as a father just like our father in heaven who have done to us. well maybe is a test from god ya.... the reason for helping her was, when she is settle , then she might think and knows what she really want, or she really feel she wants you and really wants to build a happy family with you. wish you good luck and if u do listen to what i have advise u , pls pls take your time and watch with your heart into her and you yourself, love her or pity her? If we human really love someone and she is truthful to be a good person and have a change , then give her a chance and love her again. but if u pity her then , forget abt being together again , and u have to make it clear to her ,that both of you really can't be together as a lover,.... and if u can be a good friend try to help her when u can. I think even both of u cannot be together, from what i see, u are those with a kind hearted person , and i think u will not wish to see the baby so poor thing , try to help. God bless u. All the best to you.
2007-02-07 14:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by Love everyone with your heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it happen again... hmmmmm. She went out not once but twice (probably alot more than that) and slept with this guy and produced two children with Him. I guess i can assume that you are also raising these kids, paying for them, etc. She is unfaithful, cannot be trusted, has loose morals, LEAVE. This question should not even be here. Most men would have left after the first.
2007-02-07 14:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and nobody should. Man or woman, if your spouse is cheating, lying, and having CHILDREN from other men, you're only showing that you can be walked all over and still support the people doing the walking.
This shows a horrible lack of self worth on your part and people will continue to take advantage.
An old saying, "They cheat once, shame on them. They cheat twice, shame on you."
2007-02-07 14:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kren777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. She cheats, gets pregnant, husband forgives her. She continues to cheat, gets pregnant again. If I were the husbad, I wouldn't have stayed the first time, let alone the second time. Those kids are not even his. She's not only a terrible wife, but this makes her a terrible mother. She's going to teach her kids "wonders" in relationships. Sheesh.
2007-02-07 13:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your a strong man even to ask this question go see a councellar asap she is really messing up your head that is so very mean. Either she didnt want the marriage or she still loves this other guy be careful and Good Luck.
2007-02-07 14:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do me once, shame on you. Do me twice, shame on me. I think it's time to let it go. Obviously, she wants her cake and eat it too. This isn't a healthy relationship to be in. It can lead to depression, because you are always wondering if she is going to do it again or not. Don't continue to be led around by this person. There is nothing wrong with you, you just made a bad selection. We all make bad selections throughout our lives.
2007-02-07 14:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dragonman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Honey once is a mistake, unless those two kids are twins, I suggest you find someone else . This isn't rocket science. Apparently this woman isn't going to stop seeing this man. She keeps going back for more doesn't she?
2007-02-07 13:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have left after the first "mistake" ,but I wouldn't have called it a mistake,I would have called it a "free pass to get out of jail"...Jail meaning being married to a slut,and leaving the whore to make someone else miserable. ha ha ha :)
2007-02-07 13:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how anyone would allow a cheater to stay in there life, My personal opinion you cheat you're gone, if you did it once you'll do it again. That's one thing that is unforgivable
2007-02-07 14:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by ogrething2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋